Im pregnant and my babys father wont really spend time with me! The lil bit of time we do spend its arguin this is the 3rd time ive spoken to another female on his phone! they told me they havent done anything sexual with him but they were talkin 4 a while an he neva mentioned me! If he did he would say we were broken up! I love him with all my heart an he only confesses an tries 2 make everything alright when hes caught! I have left an he only came back sayin he would change! So now im stuck do i give him 1 last chance or get an abotion an move on?
2006-08-10 18:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by CRAZY IN LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT GIVE HIM A 2ND CHANCE ITS GOING 2 KEEP REPEATING THE SAME PATTERN. I KNOW I HAVE BEEN THERE AND ALSO DO NOT HAVE A ABORTION BECAUSE U WILL REGRET IT 4 THE REST OF YOUR LIFE I KNOW. U DO NOT NEED A MAN 2 HELP U RAISE A CHILD I DID IT AND I KNOW U CAN DO IT AND I DO NOT EVEN KNOW U!!!!!!!!!!!! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP DO NOT DO THE ABORTION IT WILL AFFECT U 4 THE REST OF YOUR LIFE......................
2006-08-10 19:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get an abortion b-cus thats a human being and the baby is living already and if u have an abortion ur comitting murder b-cus that child is alive. if u dont want it have it and give it up 4 adoption but dont go killing a human baby that didnt ask to come into the world. Let it have a life too just like ur mom let u have one..and leave that guy alone he's no good or u there's so many fish in the sea. but its up to u what u do. If u 2 aren't meant to b 2gether then it wont last. Someday u'll meet ur soul mate ..A guy that will treat u way much better. What good things does he do 4 u anywayz? He sounds like a true player and he doesnt care if he hurts u all he cares about is himself. If u want 2 b with him try turning everything around on him..like be more aggressive and meaner to him. i dont know why but guys seem to want u more when they think they can't have u or if u act like the boss in the relationship. idk its up to u really what u do. u can stick around with him and go nowhere or u can go look 4 someone better and look back later and think to urself "what did i ever see in him"
2006-08-11 01:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all. When you make the decision to have sex, you take on the responsibilities that go along with it. What you are saying is that if he is not going to be with you, you are going to have an abortion. That is just great!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hell did that unborn child ever do to you?? They didn't ask to be conceived. And what happens if he sticks it out with you until the baby is born and then takes off. What will happen to the baby?? I seriously think that you need to find yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you are pregnant and he is playing these games, he is not ready to be a father, he has a lot of growing up to do himself. And even if you weren't pregnant and he was pulling this s h i t I will tell him to go screw himself. Obviously if he is telling girls that you two broke up, it is because he wants to get a peice of the action some place else.But, you need to have a serious talk with him. You both created this child and you both need to take responsibility for it. Having an abortion is a pathetic way out of a situation. And then you will have to live with that for the rest of your life, and you have no idea how that will affect you.
And just for the record I am not pro life or pro choice, it just pisses me off when kids think that they are mature enough to have sex, but oh well, if I get pregnant I will just get an abortion.
Pisses me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And whichever decision you make, use protection the next time you decide to have sex!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-11 02:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this late date, you must do what you feel is best for YOU. Before having an abortion, find out what adoption services might be available for your baby when it is born. Please do not resort to any self-induced abortions or back room procedures. This is usually, what happens to females, emotionally and physically when they allow feelings to cloud their thinking and allow males to take advantage of them physically, without making any social or legally binding committments to them. Do not give him ANY more chances to hurt you or your unborn child. Get a DNA test if you decide to have the baby and sue him for child support, IN COURT. Put yourself FIRST in your life FROM NOW ON and if other females are stupid enough to want this PLAYER, let them have him. You MUST move on and do better. Best wishes.
2006-08-11 02:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we feel is love but is that we are like attach, like we get used to it. if you do not love yourself you can not love no one else. do not do anything against your baby he/she did not ask to be there it was your desicion and why you got pregnant if you have problems. if he wants to break with yu he do not care if you have 80 kids. children do not tie. if you see he always go back to the same do not give him a chance you are not the first or the last do what you have to do and demonstrate him you can without him and remeber there are many sexual transmited disease who is going to take care of your kind if something happenned tou you. get help from an specialist
2006-08-11 01:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by dulce_boricua_pr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to leave that loser! you already gave him another chance and he blew it. if you forgive him that will make him think that he can do it again because you will always forgive him. even though he hasn't had sex with any of them i think that what he is doing is still considered cheating. second don't abort! its not the baby's fault and the rest of your life you are gonna regret having an abortion. also if you have that baby you can show him you don't need a man to support you and your baby. i know you love him but you deserve someone who will value you and respect you. its not gonna be easy but you can do it!
2006-08-11 02:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by chicatejana07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off the abortion is your choice, dont make it part of the relationship you have with this guy. second, get rid of the loser and find someone better that will love you and your baby if you decide to keep it.
2006-08-11 01:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in abortions but i think u should still have da kid be a single mother, many moms r like dat keep ya head up
2006-08-11 01:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt get an abortion, but i would move on. This guy sounds really lame. He doesnt deserve you at all.
2006-08-11 01:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll just get worse if you trap him with an unwanted child.
2006-08-11 01:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by R. F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋