how does their past make u feel?
2006-08-10 18:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on what you consider a lot...
2006-08-10 18:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has had more lovers than I have, and to be honest some of them bother me and some don't. It's only natural to be bothered by people from you spouses past on occasion. That old green eyed monster jealousy shows up, (sometimes at least for me) usually when something happens to remind me of his past, with that person, a picture of them or a story being told about them. It makes me feel jealous, angry and sometimes hurt, but again it's only natural, and it doesn't happen all the time. Just remember they chose to marry you and you are the one they are with, and the one they want to spend the rest of their lives with. Good Luck P.S. It also helps to calmly talk to your spouse about it.
2006-08-11 02:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I found that my wife had sex with hundreds of men before I knew her. She was a real tramp.She cleaned up her act for the first 15 years of marriage, and is now a cheating sl*t. I had only a dozen or so woman before I married. I hope I have a few more dozen to come now.
2006-08-11 08:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! not only slept with many girls but also made them all pregnant and all that women in his past made abortion as he suggested and requested. When I married him i knew nothing as Courtship was too short 2weeks -3weeks only. he was good..bring me to church..novena. when married and i was pregnant he sleep with other girls again.i caught him once then he denied. come home very late 4-5am. i was pregnant 3 months, he asked me for abortion..i just said, his fingers and toes are not enough to count how many babies he abort, now want to abort my son. and im a wife and He is the father. My goodness. I hope My divorce with Him will be granted soon. dats all thank you
2006-08-11 02:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by starsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We both did before we were married but that was over 18 years ago...we never talked about our previous sex partners ever...I never wanted to know and I'm sure he didn't either...been faithful ever since in our marriage, that's what marriage is about and why you should wait for the right one.
2006-08-11 01:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share, and a couple of other's shares of lovers. I've always put it like it was before this one! I'm never too curious about my woman's previous loves, I may find out something I don't want to know. Besides, I wish to believe that their's were all before me as well!
2006-08-11 01:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING.
u should love them as they are. whatever happens in the past is the past.
i'm pretty sure that u r attracted to him/her in some positive ways that only u know. work on that and use that to make youself feel better n improve your relationship.
to err is human but to forgive, that's divine
2006-08-11 01:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by stardust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person that you love's past, is part of the person you love...you love them because of who they are now, but their past is what made them who they are today. Everything a person goes through, bad or good...is what makes them who they are.
2006-08-11 02:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by maddy_girl2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter unless there's STD involved? Otherwise it's just that...the past, and it should stay there. What matters is the present.
2006-08-11 02:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was married to one such guy, he used to tell me everything about his love affair, or sex affair, i really used to find it interesting and not jeolus, coz that was the past.
2006-08-11 02:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋