why it is so hard for me to see people suffering?

Question

I always feel guilty for other suffering. what i don't understand why god that not give me the opportunity to help more people who comes to me? am so poor but i have so many poorest around me that need my help everyday. what can i do ? to hard for me to carry all that load

Answer 1

You can not save the world.Try just helping one person a day.There are alot of ways to help people without money out of your pocket. Also the children should come first. Adults can somewhat take care of themselves children can not.Pray every chance you get and don't give up. Luke 18:1

Answer 2

First of all its' great that you are so compassionate. We need more caring people in this world. Remember to not carry all the load yourself. Lay your cares upon the lord. You can be there for people in many ways besides with money. Mow there yard or pick up there grocieries. Take a walk and talk to them sometimes people just need someone to listen to there troubles. Volunteer at a nursing home or with a local church. IF you have skill that may help out. Good luck and keep up the good work of helping fellow man kind out . We need more of your kind.

Answer 3

It's very difficult to feel helpless when there is so MUCH suffering in the world. You ARE helping the people around you. Just give them hope, give them love and help them to feel at ease and at peace. Bring them comfort the only way that you can. That's all we can do. It's a crazy, cruel and unkind world, but there are kind and compassionate people in it too and you are one of them. Be strong and pray and don't carry all that load. Put it down and take a rest from it. You're only human.

Answer 4

There is no reason for you to feel guilty. We don't know why we may be "lucky" and others "unlucky". I believe in Karma but I also want to help others. You can only do so much. If you give more than you can afford, you will hurt yourself. My experience is that many of their problems are far more complicated than we can imagine. You can't fix their whole lives and that of their families. If you want to help, you should search out others who are doing work to help the poor and add your caring enthusiasm to theirs. There are many ways to help besides giving money. Stop feeling guilty. Give thanks every day that you are in a position to see, understand and assist those who are less fortunate than you. God bless you for your kind heart.

Answer 5

I am pleased to know that you are concerned with the suffering of people. Every human being who is normal has this type of feeling. This is wrong concept that only poor are suffering, the rich also suffers, but their sufferings are different. I will suggest you to join some social organization so you could help the people while earning your bread and butter.

Answer 6

I don't fell adequate to give you advice because I know that I don't do my part the way that I should but some things Iv heard of being done....all through the year make blankets (crochet,sew,knit)that you can donate to a charity for those in need of warmth in the winter time.~hand out bagged lunches to those on the streets~donate to local food drives,or start a local food drive~simple offer blessings or words of encouragement to others~Your an angle!And its questions like this that make others count there blessings,and remind us all to do our part! And I think I will!Thank You!

Answer 7

I try to do the little that I can. It's not much but it is something.

Answer 8

dont make it worse. and know that its not your responceabity. but if you can help and it dosent put you wrose off. then go ahead.

Answer 9

if you can not do anything just know that you have a good heart and that is why you feel theway you do!

Answer 10

its hard on all