I have been w/my boyfriend for 2 years. Every day I think about a guy I dated before him and I will never forget him. I tell my friends that I will marry either him or my boyfriend. I really miss the butterflies I got when he called, and when he kissed me etc. What should I do and what's wrong w/me?
2006-08-10 18:16:37 · 16 answers · asked by lvs4cheap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My boyfriend is my best friend and the guy I dated was only for 2 months. He used me more or less.. but still acted like he cared for me.
2006-08-10 18:23:05 · update #1
WHAT IS WRONG with you is that you haven't made up your mind. Stick to one man and you will be fine.
2006-08-10 18:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-12 23:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this other guy more or less used you and pretty much only acted like he cared, you seem to have forgotten the pain that he must have caused you, for you to still have him in mind. If you've been with your boyfriend for 2 years and you're thinking about someone else instead of him, it's best to let your boyfriend go because this is definitely not fair to him. You might still feel like you love him but if your love for some other guy is stronger, there's no point holding onto your boyfriend and eventually forcing yourself to forget the other guy and settle down with this one. It just doesn't work that way. There's really nothing wrong with you, this sort of thing is normal in relationships. I suggest that you take a breather from both these guys and figure out what is lacking in this relationship that was present in your previous one. Or maybe you could just look forward to meeting someone new and rediscovering the "butterflies". Good luck.
2006-08-10 18:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you my twin??????? For real!!!!!
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, I am still in love with my ex. I would love nothing more to spend my life with my ex and he feels the same, but he needs to make some changes. I, as well, miss the butterflies and the passion and the love that we shared. My current boyfriend asked me to marry him about six months ago. I accepted, but at the time was in self denial about my feelings for my ex. So, I will not set a wedding date, because I don't know what to do.
My advice to you is this, and this is what I keep telling myself...............
You and your ex broke up for a reason. The past is in the past and should stay as such. Relationships are NEVER the same as they were. Sometimes they change for the better and sometimes they change for the worse. You need to be prepared for that.
I suggest that you speak to your ex about the way that you feel. Talking about it will help you to deal with your feelings. My ex knows how I feel and he knows what he has to do if he wants me back. If there is a chance of working things out then you need to make that decision. But, one way or another you are going to have to get over it and move on, or else you will never be happy in a relationship. As far as your currentl relationship, listen to your heart and don't ever settle. Maybe he is just filling a void?????
Everything that I have shared with you are things that I have experienced. I hope this helps and there is nothing wrong with you honey. I know how you feel all too well.
If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to email me.
Good luck
2006-08-10 18:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the same thing happens to me. My boyfriend I have now . We've been dateing for a year and for monthes now and my friend gave me some little advice. The buttrerflys you had dosen't feel the same when you started dateing is started to fade. Once you get to know a person . You start to feel different about them . But not in a bad way. You got to ask yourself . Do you love your boyfriend after two years . Or do you love the other guy?
2006-08-10 18:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you and the ex break up if things were so good? Have you forgotten about what caused it to end? And if you've been with this current guy for two years, things must be really good between you two.
My gut feeling is that you have trouble appreciating what you have (your bf) and letting go of that which you cannot have (ex-bf). I once dated a girl who was that way. It's really hard to be close to someone whose heart is elsewhere.
2006-08-10 18:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your current boyfriend and get your life in order. Then the right man will come along, in due time.
What's wrong with you is you're not in love with this current guy.
2006-08-10 18:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Austin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must have been happy with him. So go get that person that gives u butterflies!!! What u waiting 4?
2006-08-10 18:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your self and think who is the really the one for you
2006-08-10 18:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by triciapeggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy but stick with the bf he seem more caring
2006-08-10 18:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋