i dont have the courage to kiss my boyfriend..ive made out with someone before but i was drunk....and ive kissed someone before... i WANT to kiss my boyfriend but im afraid. when he looks in my eyes i just get scared and turn away.... how do i do it?? what do i do??
2006-08-10 18:15:58 · 41 answers · asked by mzshorty... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
JUST BE A GOOD GIRL IN FRONT OF HIM. It will thrill him more if he makes the first move to kiss you. So, meanwhile, try to find out what turns him on and move according to it. Don't rush.
2006-08-10 18:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, honestly, i have had this feeling before. Usually though it means that I am not with the right guy or I do not completely feel comfortable yet with the guy. With my bf now of 11 months, when we first kissed it felt sooooo natural and I was not scared at all. Does it kind of in a way disgust you almost as much as scares you, or do you get a wierd feeling in your stomach? If so, you should listen to it! It might mean that you are not with the right guy.
HOWEVER, if you dont feel like that, then you seriously just have to go for it. once you do it a few times, it will feel so natural that you will not even think about the awkwardness of it anymore. I'm sure your guy will be grateful and he he may be having doubts that u really like him if you are not kissing him but u have kissed before.
ABOVE ALL, dont do it though because you feel like you have to!! Wait until you are completely comfortable!! Good luck!
2006-08-12 09:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie obviously you're not ready. i had my first kiss when i was 12 and i'll be 14 in 18 days. anyways things like this take time. don't pressure yourself to do anything just yet. you must really like this guy and you've done it before but when you see your b-f you turn away. slow down it will happen at the right time.
please email me at kamatthews@smartathome.com if you have any more questions. bye.
2006-08-18 12:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let it happen. Don't stress out over it. Try the neck it's very relaxing then move along to his lips. Little kisses at first then let him take part in the mouth to mouth. Enjoy and just go with the flow. It's OK to be shy so no worries.
2006-08-18 15:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've already done it, but booze isn't the way. Someone said you maybe weren't ready, and that seems the most logical answer. Maybe you're afraid to get hurt, to miss, or just to commit to it.
My first kiss, I did it, and meant to kiss his lips, but kissed the side of his lips, more of his cheek. I was sooo nervous. But people have had worse kisses, and will.
Tell him if you need to. Tell him you like him, but the time isn't right. And when it is...then just jump him. :)
Goodluck.
2006-08-18 08:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are that scared and really don't know how to kiss, then don't do it! Kissing just comes natural. It is different with every person. Gently put your lips against his and start kissing him, then massage his tongue with your tongue. Like I said, it will just come to you!
2006-08-18 17:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by natasha21_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that, what i figured out with my boyfriend is that you put your top lip between his and and its really hard to explain, once you get that step right, it will come naturally and if you have done it before, im sure you can do it again! Good luck!
2006-08-10 18:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he looks in your eyes, lift your face to his and close your eyes. He will kiss you. You don't have to do a thing.
2006-08-10 18:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just wait until you're ready, when ever you are you'll have the courage to kiss him
2006-08-10 18:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ivonn Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, you will know when you want to kiss him......when he looks in your eyes your not scared of kissing him but that you really like him and don't want to screw it up in anyway.....Good Luck
2006-08-18 17:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by lyn_x_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋