i really need help im too young and to young to have a baby i want to stop but its addictive help
2006-08-10 18:10:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There are some common sense things that will probably help you do better in this decision.
1) Don't let yourself get into situations that can lead to intimacy. Like being alone somewhere with a person, like apartment or car.
2) Don't do things that could weaken your decision. Like drinking too much or smoking...or petting.
3) Be around friends who will respect you and your choice not to have sex. If someone wants to intimidate you or convince you into it, they do NOT respect you - they are just trying to please themselves.
If you think about these things, you'll see what I mean. For example, you probably know that it won't happen in the mall or public place, but a private area will cause trouble. So go places where you will more likely be "safe" from this.
Good luck to you.
Peace.
2006-08-10 19:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by JustTryingToHelp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop. If you are in a situation where you can't say "no", then tell someone or ask for help, but if you are just addicted to the feeling of having sex, then masturbate whenever you feel the urge to have sex with someone. You come to the same conclusion(if you'll excuse the pun) and it doesn't include all the potential emotional baggage of sex. There's no hassle, and the best thing is: their's no consequences(like becoming pregnant or contracting an STD)! After a while of not having intercourse it will become easier to resist the temptation, and then eventually you'll be old enough to become sexually active without the worries and confusion.
2006-08-11 01:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Laure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just declare yourself a born-again virgin and start saying no, to yourself and others. You set the parameters around how you're going to live your life, and just because you have done something in the past doesn't mean you have to continue doing it. It's a choice each time. Make the choice to be in control.
2006-08-11 01:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop..everytime u think about having it think about std's, babies, yer age, and all the other negative things..try getting a hobby (besides sex) or join a sport or somthin, jus do somthin to keep u busy..hang out wit yer frends (that u cant hav sex wit) just DONT HAVE SEX..
2006-08-11 01:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already said NO instead of KNOW in your question, so maybe youre giving yourself a subliminal message?
If pregnancy is your main concern, see if there is a Planned Parenthood near you , they give out free birth control (condoms and pills)
or just stick to oral sex, i doubt a lot of guys would complain
2006-08-11 04:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by becca_573 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no. think about your reputation and who you want to be in 2, 3 5 years from now: a single parents, a successful business woman ... don't risk your future.
2006-08-11 01:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by surreal_survivor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop? If you don't want to get pregnant, use some form of birth control.
2006-08-11 07:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by heywoodjablomi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you like addicted to it or something??
just stop.. it's not like you HAVE TO have sex !
2006-08-11 01:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by ashlynn2018 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HERE'S SOME ADVICE: STAY AWAY FROM MALES AND FEMALES EXCEPT FAMILY. IF YOU ARE MALE, KEEP YOUR DICK IN YOUR PANTS AND IF YOU ARE FEMALE KEEP YOUR PANTS UP AND DONT WEAR SLUTTY CLOTHING. ALSO TRY SAYING NO, ITS A REALLY COOL WORD AND IT DOES WORK MOST OF THE TIME.
2006-08-11 01:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply fill your vaginia with cock, not the fleshy one, the building material one
2006-08-11 01:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by dude32114 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋