i got into a fight with a friend of mine about 3 months ago. we havent talked for a while then eariler today she calls and says that she wants to be friends again. the reason we started hating eachother is cuz she was being a back stabber. should i trust her and be her friend or give her the cold shoulder?
2006-08-10 18:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you could give her a second chance...she did make the effort to call you after all so it must have been playing on her mind. (BUT if she backstabs again then forget bout her...let her know u wont put up with it again!)
2006-08-10 18:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Ask why she felt the need to "back stab" you, and let her know you are concerned it might happen again. If she comes up with a viable excuse, and you want to be friends again. Go for it.
2006-08-11 01:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lindy357 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 her and see if she really meant what she said. It would be hard 4 u 2 trust her after what went on.
2006-08-11 01:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she did something wrong to you before she can totally do it again..but who knows she might have really changed..if i were you, learn your lesson...she did it before and she can do it again..back stabbers are always back stabbers..
2006-08-11 01:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by kaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices. One, you can push her away. Two, you can forgive her. But it is going to take time for her to win back your trust. Is up to you, dude. Good Luck!
2006-08-11 01:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes guts to make a move like she did. I'd give her a second chance.
2006-08-11 01:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a 2 changes
2006-08-11 01:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋