Why am I stressing out so much about my partner going to a bachelor party where there are strippers?

Question

I cannot help it it is making me feel sick and how long after is he going to have them in his mind!! I am insane!!!

Answer 1

My fiance won't go to anything I am uncomfortable with and feel it is degrading to women kind and marriage/relationship. He too is against it.

However, if your partner is going and isn't taken you into consideration, I personally would break up with him. That is me because I don't date guys who get a thrill out of that when they are taken and have no respect for their girl at home.

If you don't like the situation, tag along and see for yourself of his behavior. If he objects to it, then he is objecting to you ruining his fun because he can't "be normal" with the guys with his gf watching him. Which to me means got something to hide if can't be normal around you.

Tag along.

If you don't like it. You got a choice to accept he is going or you can let him know you won't tolerate it and makes you sick.

Seeing strippers has nothing to do with getting married. I don't see the whole irony in that. Girl's who "accept" their men to be allowing other girls to dance provokingly, hand out cash to these girls and lust over their bodies have extremely low self esteem and self worth.

Answer 2

Yes you are insane, don't you trust him?
The strippers will be gone from his mind, as soon as the party is over. I've been to a few of those over the years. It's all whoopie, when they are there, but when they leave, that's it.
They aren't out to steal your partner, believe me.There own partner, is always close by, in case something or someone, gets out of line.
So don't be so insecure, about your partner, I can tell you men hate that.
Relax and forget about the strippers, it's no big deal. It's just a fun night out with the boys, nothing more.

Answer 3

Prostitution is a criminal offense for a million! Any guy that had sex with a prostitute would not be touching me ever! My fiance is going to a strip club for his bachelor get at the same time & i'm happy with that, because certain strippers merely get bare for money. it style of sounds like your boyfriend replaced into merely attempting to make you mad! & also very immature! You stated boyfriend so it sounds like you men are not that intense any options! i imagine of it as if he's really going to do something stupid. What ever woman/ladies are really doing me a choose. more effective acceptable discover out now he's a dishonest losers then after we are married have lots of expenses at the same time & little ones!

Answer 4

I'm kinda on the same boat. I'm sure im younger than u because my boyfriend of almost 1 year won't stop talking about how excited he is for his 18th birthday to go to a strip club. Im more scared at the fact that his older brothers will probably buy him some crazy "first timers" strip show or something because its his 18th birthday. I hate the fact that 4 women with fake hair, face, ****, ass and probably vagina will be all over him while my underage ass is at home. The fact is they r strippers. They r fake. Its a one time thing. He won't leave you for one of them. He probably doesn't know her real name. (Unless mothers do really named theyre babies Candy Kane) They arn't in love like u 2 r. And most of all. HES A GUY! It seems wierd but ive learned to except it even though i crindge at the thought her naked body is all over him. Hopefully hell get it out of his system. Yes hell probably think about them once in a while. Men r more visual thinkers, God created them that way, cant change that. Men r dogs but just know your dog will come running home to his real mommy or daddy at the end of the day.
o and p.s. the night of the party go out with ur friends have fun of ur own take your mind of naked people and go crazy.

Answer 5

Strippers and bachelor parties are like jelly with penut butter. I just let it go when my husband had a wild time with his buddies. Its okay to let this one slide. After all, hell always look at other hot women. men do that the same way we look at hot men. It doesnt mean hell compare you to the strippers. Hes marrying you.

Answer 6

I don't quite know how to tell you this, but men have sex on their minds nearly all the time. It's the ones who can control themselves that are the real men. Is your partner a real man? Don't worry a lot about it. I still say that if he knew it would bother you this much, he shouldn't put you in this position.

Answer 7

I'm the same way, but my husband is respective enough of me to not go to things like that, because he knows i'm not comfortable with that stuff, which shows me he really loves me. I personally DONT think it's ok for married men to gawk at naked ladies dancing around..that can't be healthy for any marriage. If it's bugging you tell him! I would rather sit him down and talk than have jealousy eat at me inside.

Answer 8

HAVE A BACHELORETTE PARTY WITH MALE STRIPPERS!!!!!!

Why not have a bachelorette party and invite male strippers. You'll have some fun and if your fiance gets jealous then he'll know how you feel.

I know for sure I'm having strippers for my bachelorette party whether my fiance has one or not.

Answer 9

THEY wont be on his MIND more than an HOUR after leaving SETTLE DOWN..unless ONE BLOWWSSSS him..and that happens alot in the VIP Bachelor PARTY ROOOM...but dont worry ..im sure she wont be better than U at IT..lol

Answer 10

It is a form of cheating in my mind. Seeing someone of the oppostie sex in a seductive, sexy way is wrong - you are the only one he should indulge in those thoughts about.