is it possible to love the same person again after her having stopped having those special feelings sometime ago. i think it is , because many divorced couples get back together and even for everyday relationships. i still love her and am trying to start a new flame with her , is it possible? how should i go abt doing it. pls help me
2006-08-10 18:00:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Almost certainly not."
If the separation is the result of a misunderstanding that can be cleared up, yes, love can be re-established.
But if they two people were in love the first time and now are not, then true love has truly died --and when then happens it simply cannot be rekindled (La Rochefoucauld's Maxims tells us this).
Divorced people who get back together do so becuase they were getting beat up emotionally as single people and preferred the safety of being back together (ie they understood each other and BOTH gave up on loving and being loved as a result of the nightmare of searching for someone new).
2006-08-10 18:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no longer love each other you will only end up more miserable in the end, by staying together. If you have tried all the avenues such as counciling, talking... and nothing has worked.
People can change but they have to want too. You need to work on it together.
Depending on how long you have been married, if you have children, it can really take it's toll on them without you even knowing it! They see and understand more than we know, and if you are miserable...they are!
The one thing I have learned about love, is comfort, and if you are no longer comfortable in your relationship, it isn't worth the time to waste.
Good Luck
2006-08-11 01:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just answered ur last question... it is possible but she has to be missing u and want it to,, time is all i can say and read my last answer,, again im sorry and i wish this was my ex wanting to get back with me and trying everything possible...
2006-08-11 01:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by *tattooe chick*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the past in the past and build new memories
2006-08-11 01:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible... of course... the problem is, if she interested on you again... good luck
2006-08-11 01:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋