LIke, most lesbians I know were with a bastard of a man before they turned. Could this be the reason why there are so many lesbians these days (ie. evil men)?
2006-08-10 17:56:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Including fathers, or other male friends, etc...
2006-08-13 15:53:23 · update #1
I would say that's a great contributor to the number of lesbians... but then if you justify the number of lesbians due to the number of 'evil men' then people will start justifying stuff like shoplifting "well I don't have enough money to get something, because the economy has such outrageous prices, so I had to steal it in order to afford it" or child abuse "well my dad beat the crap outta me when I was younger, and I survived it... so I can do it to my kid and they can survive it just like I did"... so I'd say it's a great contributor but not a full justifiable cause.
2006-08-11 01:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tory 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some lesbians may be bisexual gals who were hurt by an evil man. But certainly not all of them are, and I suspect not even -most- of them are.
My LBF (lesbian best friend) never dated a guy. Gold star lesbian, and she's as homo as they come. Another lesbian friend dated a guy. They both still love each other a ton—they just broke up because they realized they were both gay.
Actually, I don't know any lesbians who've been hurt by an evil man. I know they exist, but I personally don't know any.
Though I certainly agree with you that are way too many evil men in the world.
2006-08-10 19:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by hynkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very close minded statement. I'm quite sure you don't even know less than a quarter of the lesbians around the world. Lesbians are the way they are because that's just the way it is! Plenty of Lesbians have never even been in a romantic relationship with a man. And for the women who have been hurt by men, who turn to a relationship with women are just plain greedy.
2006-08-11 04:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were lesbian all along but having to hide in a relationship with a man likely is the last straw before they give up the effort to be straight or seem that they are, however evil men surely make the lives of many women and children hell.
2006-08-10 18:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turned lesbian? What, does it work like Wonder Woman and all it takes is a spin? Wow! As far back as I can remember, I have been attracted to women. I dated and even married a man to make my mother happy. One day I woke up and realized that I could only make me happy so, I ditched the dude and found a wonderful woman. And no, I did not turn or decide to be a lesbian. I just did what came natural to me.
2006-08-10 18:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by 0219 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are born the way they are born. Gay people often marry to try and conform to social norms and then they end up divorcing. Often enough their spouses were great people.
You can raise a straight girl as a tom boy - but when she gets in to puberty she will want a guy. You can raise a lesbian on dolls - but she is still going to want a woman when she is of age. Same thing with guys. A gay raised as a jock is going to want men. A straight boy raised on ballet and tea parties is going to go for women.
And I hate to break it to you - but a lesbian is not interested in a 3some with you. If a woman is a bi - maybe. But if you value your health and your self esteem - don't ask a lesbian to have anything to do with having sex with a man.
2006-08-10 18:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no way! I can never go near a P***y! No matter what the situation! But don't get me wrong, I have nothing against the ones who do.
A girl is either a lesbian or she isn't, circumstance don't turn a straight woman into a lesbian. What you see in the movies is just for show and it's definitely not real.
2006-08-10 18:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by just42day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um no, because if that was the case and it was a choice, I would have turned into a lesbian after my first dating experience with a man.
2006-08-10 17:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps being with Mr Evil was what gave them the final shove to be honest with themselves and recognise that the reason they were with the ******** is because they never really liked men, anyway.
2006-08-10 20:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and that is such an out of date comment to make. The lesibans you know were probably with men because they were afraid to admit what they were. This is common and it just so happens that they pick men from the bottom of the barrel.
2006-08-10 21:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋