Do you regret it? Have things become dull in your relationship. Do you wish you would have waited so you could have experienced other people? Is your marriage collapsing?
2006-08-10 17:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not married, just wondering.
2006-08-10 18:35:03 · update #1
I don't think marriage is easy no matter how young or old you are when you enter into it. Yes, marrying young is difficult, especially if your friends are all still single. But, marrying young is also good because neither or you are set in your ways, you can grow and learn together. The only real concern is whether you really understand what you're in for and prepared to make it work, even when it's hard?
2006-08-10 17:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No regrets for me. I got married when I was 19, I'm now 21 so I guess that's not really too long of a time for me to be commenting
on this question but my marriage is great so far. Time will tell if we grow apart, though I don't wish for that to happen. But...you just never know what kind of card you'll be dealt with so my husband and I try to live life as if there's no tomorrow.
2006-08-11 01:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We got married when I was 17 and my husband was 19. We don't regret it at all. I married my best friend and now I get to spend every day with him. I'm very lucky to have been married at such a young age and still be so happy. But we work very hard every day to make sure that we have a good marrieage. It takes dedication to hard work. The only reason for experiencing other people is for Sex. And it's not worth it for me to have tried someone else and have lost him.
I hope things work out for you as well as they have for us.
2006-08-11 01:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by seths_flame03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it normal to think about what you missed out on by being married so young. There are a lot of things that you don't get to experience and yes at times I wish I waited till I was a little older to have gotten married.
2006-08-11 05:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 when I got married to my soon to be ex husband. The first year was great the 2nd he cheated and I took him back..After that we were fine for about 4 years and we had 2 wonderful kids. 2 Months ago he cheated again. I don't regret getting married so young because of my kids, but if I could do it over again I would of waited. We didn't get to experience our teenage years. So he is making up for it now...lol...We ultimately grew apart and stoped talking to each other. You just change so much as you get older and for me and him we just didn't have that much in common after we grew up...
2006-08-11 01:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married at the age of 23 and i do not regret it. I am now 31 and we are still very much so happily married. No way would i have wanted to wait and find someone else i knew he was the one and to this day love him very much. Our love grows more and more everyday i wouldn't change or trade that for anything..
2006-08-11 08:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were married at 19. We have been married now for over32 yrs. I love her more today than I did at 19. We are still madly in love and share each days adventures as they present themselves. She is my best friend, my buddy and my lover all in one. And she tells me I am the best thing ever to happen to her as well. We have 2 daughters and now 3 grandchildren. The secret is to always be open and communicate and never let the sun go down on your anger. Get it out and over with. Grab life and shake the crap out of it, live every minute as if it was your last. We do it keeps us young and in love.
2006-08-11 11:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by frnzcallmebub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married soon after turning 22, my husband was 19. I have no regrets whatsoever. I take pride in making my marriage last for ten years now.
My husband is the only person i ever want to experience. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else.
Our marriage has had it's trials but we have overcome them and we are the better for it.
I enjoy my marriage, I enjoy my husband and I hope it lasts for years to come.
2006-08-11 01:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married when i was 20, he was 22. we were married for a long time. the marriage didn't get boring, but we grew apart, mostly because he had a drinking problem, and I finally got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore.
2006-08-11 01:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married at 19 years old. I thought I knew what I wanted and suppose I did, but people change and we grew apart. I changed and found out about myself and who I am and knew that he was the wrong person for me in the long run so I left him and was divorced at 28 years old with two kids. I don't regret it, but I don't recommend it either. I don't think anyone should get married until they are at least 26 or so.
2006-08-11 01:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋