For you guys out there............?

Question

My hubby wants me to seduce him,can you guys help me,and tell me the ways a guy can be excited,i mean how can/should i seduce him?????????????????????.I am a very shy person but will try doing every possible thing i can for him,so help me out..........Thanks.

Answer 1

I can't say more but i'm sure that if you did all the above he will be your slave, no man can think to leave home if all this was done for his eyes only.

Answer 2

I'm not a guy, but I can give you some tips for the ultimate seduction!!

My husband is in the army and is coming home from Iraq tomorrow (I'm SO excited!! lol) and I've had 7 months to come up with some good seduction tactics!

1) If you're willing to spend the money, this website is AWESOME. It's called Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear. They make sex furniture that is spefically designed to make sex more enjoyable and help couples experience a whole new world of sexual freedom! I just bought the wedge/ramp combo for my husband and I, with tax and shipping it came out to around $200.00. Check it out!! www.liberator.com. You can order right on the website and have the products shipped to your door.

2) If there is a Lover's Package near you (an adult toy/apparel store) go there and look around. Their staff is very knowledgable and informative, and are friendly and outgoing. They will point you in the right direction if you tell them what you're wanting to achieve. They also have a website you can order from, too: www.loverspackage.com. I just purchased an amazing candle, that when lit melts into aromatherapy massage oil! It's made completely from natural ingredients and is hypo allergenic. Here is the link to the candle: http://www.loverspackage.com/scripts/ecatalogisapi.dll/Item?Item=66247&Template=IMPORT-NETNET334&Group=267&aid=0&sid=0&bid=0

3) Burn a CD of your favorite "sexy" songs, get some lingere from Victoria's Secret and perform a striptease for your husband. Any man will feel totally seduced and really aroused!! He'll not only appreciate the time it took you to come up with the songs and make up a routine, he'll have a night he'll never forget!!

Hope these tips help, and have fun!! :)

Answer 3

Okay, I know you asked for 'Men Only', but they are telling you what they want, not what your hubby wants. You know him (hopefully) better than anyone else. Take what you know and turn it into an fantasy that he will enjoy! I used to meet my husband @ the door almost every night and strip him down and savagely or passionately make love to him(we would include ties, the kitchen table or whatever felt kinky enough!, if you get my drift!). It depended on My Mood, not his. It was spontaneous and fun, he enjoyed it and so did I. Try thinking of your wildest fantasy and putting a little bit of his in there to and then maybe the both of you will not only be excited, but waiting for the next go around! And Yes, Lingerie is a plus. The guys really like it!

Answer 4

I really love lingerie.. if my wife were to walk into our living room or kitchen wearing almost nothing but some sexy lingerie, that would do it for me.. I also like outdoor sex.. maybe go for a walk in a semi private park or out in the woods some night and find a private spot that you can get intimate with your hubby.. then look at him in the eyes and tell him that your not wearing any underwear under the skirt you have on and tell him that you want him to take you right there and then.... I also like the unexpected ********.. sitting on the sofa watching my TV shows and she comes in out of the blue.. and kneels down between my legs undoing my pants.. and well.. yea.. that does it for me.. :) Another idea would be to walk into a room completely naked and holding a bottle of honey or chocolate syrup..

Answer 5

i know i'm a chick, but i had to put in my 2 cents

first of all girls don't have to do the suduction side! "hey com'on! i'm neked ovah here!" should just about do it...

that being said, my husband went throught this silly little phase for about 4 years of calling himself a sex-camel everytime i threatened to cut him off. of corse i never would and the next morning he would be doing it again.... silly boy.... so, well, i finally got tired of it and absoulutly denied him for about a week. now i'm sure a lot of people reading this are thinking, "a week? no biggie!" but they forgot to factor in the fact that i am pure evil when a situation calls for it. so we didn't have any sex, we did, i did, anything but. so i went to sleep every night quite happy and, well, i don't know if he got any sleep.... well anyway, he spent the week chasing me and when i finaly let him catch me it was super great!!! and now i never hear the words 'sex-camel' any more. in fact, when i want him to he has to call himself a sex-monkey... ;-)

anyway the moral to the story is that sometimes it's more fun to suduce him by making him suduce you...


disclaimer: i do not live in a sadist-masicist relationship. we love eachother very much and have a lot of respect for eachother. oh yeah, i'm pretty shy myself and being that way i understand it's kinda hard to break out of your shell to try new things, but you will feel really good after you do.
hey! your the only neked thing in the room that counts, you can't go too wrong!

Answer 6

Sex in a public place rocks! Where a skirt or a dress. Take him somewhere private or semi private (outdoors of course) and seduce him right then and there. Don't tell him what your going to do or when your going to do it. Just suriprise him. He'll love it. I did.

Answer 7

Every man has different desires.

You should know these things before you marry somebody...

Try talking to him.

Surprise him, start wearing some sexy lingerie under your everyday clothes, try some dirty talk.

Make love in unusual places.

Answer 8

A seduction requires he resist to some extent. I suggest tying him to the bed while you slip into some lingerie. Then give him a massage...

Answer 9

try to let ur wild side out u gotta have a wild side, relax, put on some nice pj's show a lil something, set up a nice dinner.....
just feel comfortable with him first. good luck !

Answer 10

Ask him what his fantasy would be and help his dreams come true men are different just ask and he should be able to give you some idea,s...