Do you think this will be pretty safe to assume he will be useless to try anything?? Im stressing out about it!!! I trust him but I know that the women are too much temptation!
2006-08-10 17:32:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are worrying for nothing... Sounds like he will be to drunk.
2006-08-10 17:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Guzzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women at a strip club are mainly there to dance. The worse thing that could happen at the club is they will get him on the dance floor in a chair and have 2-3 ladies give him a lap dance. There are bodygaurds there to prevent any man from touching the girls and they are usually very strict on that aspect. If the guys touch...they are out on their butts.
On the other hand, the girls ARE allowed to touch, but most of the women working at clubs have boyfriends and husbands some even children...they make good money, it's a job, and I have never seen one touch a guy inappropiately yet. Other than shoulders or head and sitting or dancing on their lap.
It's one fun night for the guys........just let them have their fun and YOU have fun on your night!
2006-08-10 18:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what condition your husband to be is in. . . there is NO excuse for him messing around. If you believe or know women will be too much temptation for him then he is and always will be a cheat! There is and always will be temptation throughout his life. Strippers and whores are a lot less temptation than a business acquaintence or a coworker! If he will bang a stripper he will bang anyone. You're being ok with "women being too much temptation" is the same as you saying it's ok to cheat in certain situations. If you're ok with this than marry the scumbucket!! If you're not. . then drop the dirtbag like a bad habbit! Good luck!
2006-08-10 17:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I am a female and go to strip clubs all the time. Everytime I go there is always a bachelor party, the husband to be is always getting a lap dance and always getting extra attention from the dancers. I often hear the hubby to be ask for "extras" since its his last night being unmarried, i've even been asked quite a few times if i would have sex with the man. Men are pigs, i love my man but men for some reason are obsessed with a naked girls body and usually if he gets the chance to have sex with a sexy girl he is going to take it. I don't mean to scare you, I don't know your fiance so he could be different...im just going by what i have seen.
2006-08-10 19:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't trust him or you wouldn't be freaking out. Have you ever been to a strip club? Those women are doing their job and they do not want to take your husband home. I'm sure if he was offering money they would do whatever with him but why would he do that? You need to have a heart to heart with him because it seems like you don't trust him. Or lay down the law, my friend doesn't want her husband to go to strip clubs so when all the guys go to the club, he goes home. Now that's love.
2006-08-10 17:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sarrah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look if you trust him it will be fine.. don't stress.. My husband went to strip clubs on his Bachelor Party and is in the process of planning his cousins Bachelor Party and they are going to strip clubs.
You are worrying and stressing over nothing.
Take my advice don't imagine the worst it will drive you crazy!!
2006-08-10 17:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be stressing also! That sucks, I dont know what I'm going to do when my future husband to be goes to his bachelor party. The guy and most likely "husband-to-be" that I'm with now luckily doesn't really get into that kind of thing. He's against any sort of cheating whether it be looking or thinking even, so I'm pretty safe :)
2006-08-10 17:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will probably be too drunk to do much of anything. Still, don't worry too much if he isn't. I'd worry more about his wallet if I were you. I worked as a DJ in a strip club for ten years, and all they are really interested in is making as much money as they can. He might here some sob story or be led down the primrose path. You know what they say about a fool and his money...
2006-08-10 17:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy goes to a strip club doesnt mean he will have sex with the stripper. If the tables were turned would you? You never know he may come home very rampant, and you may both have a good night ;)
2006-08-10 17:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never assume anything however if u trust him then u have nothing to worry about. even in such a state he should be able to resist temptation while out. make sure u r ready to greet him, no matter what his state, when he arrives home-who knows u may be the only 1 to tempt him & cause him to give in
2006-08-10 17:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be worried... i know some maried guys that go to bachlor parties they are the most innocent ones there... they basically just sit around and watch what's goin on! and if a stripper gives him a lap dance so what it's meaningless and he's comin home to you the one he loves and married not some hoe that's just mere entertainment! you've got nothing to worry about!
2006-08-10 17:37:54 · answer #11 · answered by coldilocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋