hey, im a college student, freshman year...i was just wondering for this first year...whats the best way to charm women at parties, when you dont know if you have anything in common to talk about? I mean i have no problem wooing women when we have something in common, but approaching a girl at a party isnt exactly my specialty...any suggestions? Any ways to see if shes into it and keep going or just stop and bounce?
2006-08-10 17:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Spit game at her? Ok, get yourself some little plastic houses out of a monopoly box. Wash them off first, I can't emphasize that enough. You don't know where they've been...
Yeah, I know, that was lame. I couldn't resist, though. I dunno, just walk up and ask some good 'getting to know you' questions. "Hey, how you doing? Having fun? What's your major?" something like that. Anything that is likely to strike up a conversation.
2006-08-10 17:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Master Maverick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man does not "spit game". "Spitting game" is what someone who is immature and with limited intelligence does. A woman who goes for "game" is also immature, shallow and has low esteem. I have seen many men and women fit this description. Not all young, not all black and not all American either...
2016-03-16 21:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you meet a female at a party, and you do not have anything in common with her,
if she is attractive, sexy, and you still have the attraction..
then sit down with her (providing she is attracted to you)
After you sit down, and talk to her, even if she is different, then just tell her you want to know more, and keep asking her to talk about herself..and if you talk enough and ask enough questions, she will be flattered by you, and you.. guess what, you might just learn something,
people are interesting,and even if different from you, you will actually become more interesting by being exposed to "someone different" EVEN IF YOU HAVE LITTLE IN COMMON
Good luck,
2006-08-10 18:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start out by introducing yourself. ask how they know the person/people who is throwing to party. ask what they are studying, where they are from. Then you'll have something in common-you are studying something and are from somewhere too!
Oh-and remember her name. Don't stick around too long but come back later and address her by name-she'll be impressed and flattered you remembered and want to talk to her again.
2006-08-10 17:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by sofun 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
spit game? you need better language to start with, dont pick them up at parties if its not a good place, meet people in class and at the library. and grow up a bit boy
2006-08-10 23:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
its all about making them laugh dude, go upto them and charm them by like making ur starting phrase. couldnt help it but ur eyes lurd me into ya, didnt catch ur name by the way. looool always works lool
2006-08-10 17:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ASK SOMETHING LIKE--HOW'D YOU HEAR ABOUT THIS PARTY, OR WHO ARE YOU HERE WITH, IF SHE SAYS WITH HER GIRLS, THERE'S YOUR Q--SAY SOMETHING CLEVER BUT FUNNY TO FIND OUT IF SHE'S GOT A BOYFRIEND, IF SHE SMILES YOU'RE DOING GOOD. IF IT'S A NICE HOUSE THAT THE PARTY IS AT SAY THIS IS WHAT YOU HOPE TO HAVE LATER IN LIFE, THEN YOU CAN GO WITH THE AMBITION CONVERSATION--THAT SHOULD OPEN THE FLOOR. ETC..ETC...
2006-08-10 17:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
just be ur self and dont make urself look desperate...thats a total turn off. dont get drunk. treat her like she was urs...all in all just be u
2006-08-10 17:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Irma B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her a drink.
2006-08-10 17:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by :.~**GUERAPOLLERA**~.: 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be nice and polite to her.
2006-08-11 05:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋