We are 4 close friends. I told a secret to one of the girls and she told the others. We've all been friends for a long time but somethings I don't want everyone to know... even my closest friends. Should I trust her next time?
2006-08-10 17:14:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they truly are true friends the type that last a long life then just hold on to there trust. Friends argue and always are going to sometimes disagree on what you believe in. So, the best way to handle this is just give your friends one more chance.
2006-08-10 17:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by tania_espinoza17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me know when ya figure that one out! I also have four really close friends. Three of which are close among them selves. They enjoy telling each other all sorts of stuff about me and talkin behind my back. They enjoy telling each other how I have changed and that they miss the old me, but life isn't lived w/o changing. I have changed for the better and it is there own fault if they don't except me for it. I guess I shoulda said I HAD four close friends. I belive that one of them is behind it all more then the other ones, but it still doesn't give them all the right to do that. I have learned one very important lesson though, you can not always trust the people that you think that you can. You will alwas be able to move on and find better friends throughout your life.
2006-08-10 17:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble waitin 2 happen!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in the 6th grade, oh so many years ago, I read the following.
"Beware of telling your friends your deepest darkest secrets, because when your friends become your foe, then all the secrets you have told, everyone else will know."
2006-08-10 17:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , you should not trust her anymore, and if you don't want to be hurt in the future you should get her out of your life. Life is full of enough people like that, you need to spend your time, love and energy on the people who matter and treat you with love, respect and dignity.
2006-08-10 17:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Anderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that terrible. The answer is no. You can't trust them, but you can believe in them. It's sad but sense they ARE NOT your family they will constantly let you down. Friends aren't to be "trusted" they are to be believed in and confided in.
Why?
Because friends stab you in the back and move on without ever talking to you again. Trust your family, they will be there forever.
2006-08-10 17:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before you can trust them for sure tell her something that's not true. But make her believe it's one of your deepest darkest secrets. Just don't make it something that when you tell them it was a trap they'll never believe you. After that you'll know for sure if you should trust her or not. But maybe you should just not trust your friends. I don't tell my friends my deepest darkest secrets.
2006-08-10 17:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps breaking your trust all the time then it's not worth it to be friends with her, she's not a true friend if she does it all the time.
2006-08-10 17:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE
If she told your secret once she will do it again unless you tell her not to tell even your closest friends.
2006-08-10 17:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her again. Secrets are meant to be kept to ones self.
2006-08-10 17:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt but then again how did u trust her and ask ur self how much u gonna miss dat trusting that person? if ur ans is ur not gonna miss trusting her then u did not consider her ur true friend. but if u did then trust her again but remember wat goes around comes around and if she did it some1 else might do it even worst. dont leave ur true friend for a mistake dat they made. Dont judge her put urself in her shoes.........c it from her point of view maybe she tried 2 help u?
2006-08-10 17:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by ratoncita1207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋