He is in my school and i really like him. He asked me out one time, but he did it as a joke. that'a really mean of him, but i still really like him. i m not sure but i think he likes me. anyone know any good ways to get him to like me? i am changing my apperance this year. i was casual and laid back last year. But i am going girlie this year. Are there any guys out there who like girlie girls and can also give me some advice on how to get him to ask me out for real? or if you just have any tips on this situation?
2006-08-10 16:52:54 · 11 answers · asked by nicole d 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
PLEASE DO NOT start dressing like a tramp for his attention. To get guys attention be cute not sexy. Guys see sexy as like a girl friend for like a week. When a guy sees a cute girl he wants to actually get to know her and wants to be around her. And when you flirt don't like be all over him. Flirt with your eyes. i have the best trick and it worked for me! Okay I was walking down the hall and make eye contact and hold it. give a half smile and than turn your head. Make sure when you try this walk down the hall with a friend so when your done with your lil eye contact thingy you can look at your friend and start talking like whatever just happened never did and it's like a thing in the past. This will keep him wondering all day. O and style wise like I say dress more cute than trampy when wearing a mini wear flats not high heels. And with jeans try a black pointed toe pump. Acessorize with big belts just around your waist not in the loops. And make your outfit you! He'll be begging for you in no time. And maybe you'll even attract some1 elses attention!?
2006-08-10 17:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy...but i will give you my girlpower opinion. any guy who asks you out as a "joke" is cruel and probably insecure. what im wondering is why are you belittling yourself by subjecting yourself to more humiliation? do you like being abused..you probably lack self control to stay away from him...but you should try to because i think young women who subject themselves to this sort of mental trama end up going through years of very expensive therapy to get over this crap. no offense to the guy, i dont know him or in what way the "joke" was...it could have been an innocent joke between friends, but i am inclined to think worse of it...
2006-08-10 17:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by samina650 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dressing up in funny ways will get his attention, but this won't make him ask you out unless the words "take me out" is written on your skin. Gather up some confidence and speak to him, and also, try not to pretend to be someone else other than yourself.
2006-08-10 17:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive said this a billion times to many people -- you cant make someone like you. if the guy doesnt like you for who you are, theres no point in changing everything you are just for him. find someone that will like you for you, not for the mask you put on. keep in mind that youre only in high school (i would think) and its not like youre gonna marry him. so dont change yourself. make the most out of life and meet the guy for *you*
2006-08-10 17:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good way for him to notice you is to be yourself but approach him dont wait show him that when you see something you like you go for it and you take it but dont to anything crazy and try to force your self on him or anything drastic to get his attention make sure he sees you and not someone else cause you and him might fall in love
2006-08-10 17:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by north_side_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show off some skin n wear a thong that always gets the guys attention, but only try n show it off to him, like when he is behind u bend over n u will see his pance pitch a tent
2006-08-10 16:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i would start by if you are changing you apperance, then i would start by mabey write out what you are going to say to him.... and so you wont like mess up when you talk to him.... but dont be to girly cuz he will like freak out.... dont be like o my god i broke a nail im ganna die.... if you do say that then say it sarcasticly... then when you go to school try to get closer to him by like talking to him and get to know him before you ask him out.... then mabey he will make the first move.... but if he didnt then after you get to know him and hang out then you can start to very slowly start to tell him and start to show him by like giving him a look and mabey sitting next to him at lunch and then tell him you like him....... and then after he gets to know you then mabey if he dosent already like you too as the same way you like him thenevery thing will go along smothly...
hope that helped......
2006-08-10 17:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a rose, look into his eyes and tell him "Will you go out with me?"
2006-08-10 17:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear super lowrise jeans and junk like that.
2006-08-10 16:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur stupid if u wanna go out with him when he did something bad to you. get another guy!!!!
2006-08-10 16:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by hejhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋