Sex life is non existent. But I'm horny nearly all the time. Any ladies have tips/advice or willing to help meet my needs online?
2006-08-10 16:32:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to slowly introduce stuff to her. maybe she's embarrassed or nervous. try being romantic and kinky at the same time, i.e. give her a full body massage and then try whatever kinky stuff you've got in mind.
if she's not down with going down maybe she doesn't like the taste. there are flavored jelly's and things like that... look for them online.
also, if she's not in the mood remember that sex for a wife is an all day affair. if you royally piss her off in the morning chances are, you're not gettin' any that night. oh, and hitting up random women on line probably isn't the best way to win her over either.
2006-08-10 16:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by happymommy24 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you don't meet your needs anywhere else. There were several questions like this before. The main reason(s) a woman may normally not want sex are they just don't enjoy it, they feel unattractive or they are stressed out. Try romancing her throughout the day with compliments and little displays of affection like a massage, holding her hand, playing with her hair, whatever she likes - you should know her by now (nothing perverse or overtly sexual though) and help her out with the household chores. Talk to her and really listen to her. Make her feel valued. Leave love notes, draw a bubble bath with candles for her. Then when she is interested do a little more foreplay and please her first.
The oral and kinky part of sex do not appeal to everyone. Instead of why won't she get into it maybe ask why you need it.If you really need that release and she is not responsive it is fine to please yourself in another room from her and without the aid of other women whether in person, on the internet, pornography, etc.
Realize a lot of people use sex as a substitute to fill a void in their life that really has nothing to do with sex. Try identifying what it is. Are you dissatisfied with work? Did something happen to make you feel less macho? Are you not getting the attention or affection or intimacy you want? Even if you are rolling your eyes at this last part and saying I am just an average man with a large sexual appetite at least attempt the romance part. Ask what she likes and don't be so self absorbed.
2006-08-11 00:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not like to do that, but if she was really into you than she would. Try giving her what you desire then see if she do the same to you. You know, that is what's wrong with a lot of marriages today. Wife or husband don't cooperate and the third wheel comes in to fulfill.
2006-08-11 01:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question provides a big clue about why your wife lost interest in you! You are an idiot who makes lame excuses for HIS bad behavior, immaturity and lack of character...has anything EVER been your fault? Loser! Just do her a favor and divorce her she deserves better and might actually be happy if you got the hec out of her life!
2006-08-10 23:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself why sex w/ your wife is non existent? after u answer then do whatever is necessary to change it. try talking to your wife about why things in the bedrm or in any rm, for that matter, have disappeared-in your present situation b4 u think about oral or kinky sex w/ your wife try to have plain, missionary style sex 1st
2006-08-10 23:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was she into all of that stuff before? you can't assume that someone is going to change after you get married. it may not be her thing...but I'm sure that a thoughtful, loving, romantic husband is probably her thing...think about what she likes, she wants, and please her...maybe after a while she'll be willing to try new things...or maybe you'll find that pleasing her is better than pleasing yourself.
2006-08-10 23:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by englishteach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u American?Umm ..I think you all like sex life before.But I'm not surprise to hear your question.Anyway u can try it with ur girl instead of having sex with a stranger u don't know before.. hehe
2006-08-10 23:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by aloha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are just traditional women. I am not one of those women because if i could have it all day everyday i wouldnt leave the bed.
2006-08-10 23:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by mldwild 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking from a wives point of view.It's just GROSS!!Its not a turn on at all,and what does it do for us.Being married,you what to make love,not be an animal.
2006-08-10 23:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
funny as she does with me when youre at work
2006-08-11 07:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋