I let my grandmother come over one day and she was going through my brothers bills. Also besides that she has be able to be so rude to her family that no one really wants to talk to her or see her. I thought maybe it would be a good idea to tell her she is being rude and nosy but the family insists on my not saying a word...What do i do?
2006-08-10 16:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have found the best way to handle nosy is to ask: 'Why would you ask that?' or 'Isn't that very a very personal question?' or 'Sorry, I'm just not comfortable discussing that' a: 'right now' b: 'with you'. Perhaps, it would be best to just level with her. You could TACTFULLY explain to her that at this time you need your space. She may be very lonely, or perhaps it is her way of showing her interest in you. Be as kind as you can muster the strength to be, remember you won't be this age forever and she won't be here forever. Be Blessed.
2006-08-10 16:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Gran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's particularly egocentric! I in no way had a grandmother like yours nonetheless she's your granny. regardless of if, I nonetheless needed that may assist you a sprint. desire this might assist you. For the propose time, go away that residing house for few days to a minimum of one week. enable's see how she ought to stay her existence on my own without disturbances she theory you have been. If she dies, it rather is her fault! you're in simple terms doing what's superb suited. or in simple terms carry her to the closest adoption residences for senior electorate. In that way, you would be residing in peace. And your uncle? clarify to him why you're doing this. She's impolite! no person will ever needed to stay along with her! possibly different than God. Duh! I super hate grandparents like yours. >.< and that i'm able to experience your unhappiness with this occasion. If I have been in simple terms beside you, i could rather assist you individually than commenting right here. :)
2016-10-01 22:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, family drama among the dysfunctionals, how incredibly usual. why not firmly stand up for your rights when she infringes upon them. the old "tough love " approach. letting her get away with obviously inappropriate behavior benefits no one and just causes resentment to build against her, to her disadvantage, ultimately. be brave :-)
2006-08-10 16:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your grandmother she's earned the right so leave her alone and quit whining.
2006-08-10 16:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats ur granny man let her be her n u be u but find a middle ground
2006-08-10 16:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her, the sooner you do, the happier you will be.
2006-08-10 16:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by nikki90hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get cottons buds, put it in ur ears hehehe
2006-08-10 16:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by creams60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and tell her u will feel comfortable if she didn't act that way
2006-08-10 16:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THAT OLD BlTCH TO GO PRACTICE RUBBING YOUR CLlT SO YOU CAN PlSS ALL OVER HER AND DROWN HER TO DEATH EASILY
2006-08-10 17:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋