This guy and I mutually like eachother we just never truly came out and said it. He constantly trys to make me jealous by making random statements about how he's going to hang out with some girl &then stares at me as if he wants a reaction. He does that or randomly interrupts our conversations to tell me that a girl likes him and yet again, watches for some sort of reaction. Last week I finally confronted him and told him that it bothers me and hurts me that he is always trying to shove things like this in my face. I asked him WHY he needs for me to react and WHY he does it. I also told him that there is no point in him denying it because we BOTH know he does it. He said he didnt know what to say. Yet, why act like this when he is hanging out with another girl constantly? I haven't spoken to him since and it's obvious that it bothers both of us. Yet since we aren't talking now, he has resorted to putting these same statements on away messagesjust to get to me. What should I do
2006-08-10 16:08:17 · 19 answers · asked by elfyeaf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well.....now, he is still hanging around that girl, stills talks to her a lot. Yet....still with the comments, especially on away messages. We are not speaking right now and he almost seems like he has guilt. I think its because I refuse to give a reaction so maybe he may possibly think that he is losing me? I've already tried to talk to him again but he is so shy/awkward. I guess the ball is in his court. But do you think he will ever have the courage to speak up and tell me once and for all what he is doing?
2006-08-17 15:26:55 · update #1
Yep he will give in soon just keep playing the role and don't shoe no no reaction men are stupid like that and one day he's just going to burst and give in
2006-08-18 10:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games. If he loves you he wouldn't want to hurt you and vice a verse. He might really like you though. Guys play games and maybe you need to figure out how you feel about him. If you can, go out with someone else and see what his reaction is but be careful not to hurt the person you go out with. You moving on might drive him nuts and he will stop doing it to you and ask you out. If he is just playing around then he will probably keep doing it and you should really move on until he grows up.
2006-08-17 16:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on your f u c k him dress honey and go out and have a good time show him what jealousy really is . once its back in his face he will stop that s h i t if he really likes you .dont waste your time on a prick who thinks he's doing you some type of favor for liking you. tell him there are plenty of fine a s s men without out that childish quality. tell him it is not attractive.
2006-08-18 19:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said: "It bother me" and "hurts me" in your comment.
Do you need a third reason to stop seeing this guy?
Obviously, you're the more mature one because you have feelings.
Save them for the right guy!
2006-08-18 18:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, be like " hey i know it bothers both of us that we arent talking but it is stupid for u to try to make me jealous, it doesnt work its just annoying. If you like me, which i think you do, then tell me. If you dont tell me know and i wont bother u anymore." thats wut i would do hope this helps report back with us on the results! Good luck!!
2006-08-10 23:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by sophia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because he knows it bothers you. You are stronger then him you just haven't figured that out yet. If you weren't there to see this what would he do?
2006-08-15 20:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should really talk 2 him whether or not he wants 2 nd then as soon as ya'll start talkin *** 2 an agreement of sorts
2006-08-18 17:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I understand, but it sounds like this guy has some behavior issues, so i think you can find better Friends.
2006-08-18 19:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him and one to be one do that and tell him or get out of the picture. Man i don't understand how one like you can be so dumb. i mean its obvious and yet, you are playing games also.
2006-08-16 21:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense dunt take it to full heart... but in my opinion...that guy is tryin to give hints that he dunt want u.... OR that guy jus got a big ego and maybe jus messin wid u jus to get even more attention... u know to see his limits to boost his ego... wanna makeu jealous... lik any guy who is messin around wid ur emotions and ****.... u cannot say he truly likes u... wud u really want a guy who not real... who lik messin wid ya head... imagine u guys go out... and he feels neglected... whta he gonna do?? sleep wid a girl jus to get u jealous and ur attention back to him...
2006-08-10 23:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by damn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋