How do i make myself feel better about myself?

Question

ok,my frend vanessa iz really pretty,she has lik combusting bcups a big butt an long pretty hair.me im jus a 13 year old chubby gurl with bearly an acup an not really a butt.i had no boyfrend ever an im sad: (.i cry every night sayin im ugly wat should i do?

Answer 1

Learn to spell and compose a cogent thought, at least then you'll have something objective by which to measure yourself. Think about it, the world is becoming dependent on impersonal contact, the web, you can tell me you look like whatever you want or you are whatever age and have had whatever experience, I can believe it or not. If you tell me you are intelligent, well, at least there is some way to prove that.

Answer 2

Shanice, you are only 13 and so your body is still growing. It doesn't matter if you friend looks better, it's simply a matter of "If you feel good, you look good".

If you are worried about your size, I'd say start exercising. Begin with walking around your neighbourhood, or if you live in a highrise, allocate a time where you will climb the building from bottom to top ((;

As for the breast thing... It takes time and there's advantages for "smaller people". And if you exercise, you'd tone your butt! Especially with the stairs climbing.

Boyfriends come and go, so I'd say, do not rush and the right one would be there for you.

Good luck, missy (;

Answer 3

13 years old is a very hard age I would never want to go threw it again lol..You are still sooo young and have so much growing up to do by the time your 16 or 17 you will look at pictures at 13 and not believe your the same person honestley.And as far as a boyfriends goes dont even worry about that right now enjoy not having to worry about boys.. you will have your whole life to worry about boys just enjoy your friends..It is so weird how much you will change and grow up in the next 3-4 years just wait and see..

Answer 4

Listen to me, just because you don't look the way the media portrays their sex idols doesn't mean that you are ugly. There are skinny people in the world and there are fat people and everything else in between. You don't have to let the world, the media, designers or your friends dictate to you what you're supposed to look like. You are only supposed to look the way that god made you. And you're doing a fine job at that. You're 13 years old hun, you still have a lot of growing up to do. You'll mature nicely in time. Just don't try to conform to the ideal that everyone holds, be yourself.

Answer 5

I just want to say, i will never EVER miss being a teenager. You may not believe this but really, men do prefer women with a strong mind. If you want to be sexy as hell, start exercising, eat healthy, never, ever deprive yourself of nutrients. just the exercising alone will boost your endorphines and that makes people happy. you'll lose fat, gain strength and kick butt. you know something, who cares who has a big boobs and a great ***? Be happy for your hot friend and ask her for advice too... i have both, and they didnt get me anywhere where i want to be....instead i have strong compassion, got an education, and work hard...THAT got me somewhere. Give it time, you will grow to love yourself. You have to love yourself before you expect to be loved by others my young yahooligan friend. And i think there must be some guys already out there noticing you....maybe you havent noticed them....sorry about the poor punctuation...just being lazy tonight!

Answer 6

Look it is hard with society making you feel like you have to be perfect,But just be yourself do your hair nice and maybe a little makeup you could exercise to and get a little more toned but don't let it get you down it will only make you look worse confidence always looks hot!

Answer 7

MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF!!! AFTER YOU DO THAT ASK YOUR FAMILY TO DO THE SAME!!! YOU'LL FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF IN NO TIME!!! IT'S NOT HELPING IF YOU JUST SIT THERE AND CALL YOURSELF UGLY DO SOMETHING AND BY THAT I MEAN EXERCIZE!!! A LONG WHILE AGO I WAS JUST LIKE YOUR DESCRIPTION!!! I EXERCIZED FOR 3 MONTHS ONE SUMMER!!! AND WHEN I GOT BACK TO SCHOOL ALL EYES WERE ON ME!! I also went on a HEATHY diet. EAT LOTS OF FRUITS
, TURKEY BREAST WITHOUT THE SKIN YOPLAIT YOGURT, ETC...(NO JUNKFOOD)
YOU WILL HAVE A FIGURE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT!!!

Answer 8

well i was in ur situation before but even worst i cried day and night i lost weight and grew my hair put on a lil make up now im look better and my sister is jelous but wait for the boys find someone who wants you fou u.

Answer 9

just be yourself, have some confidence. you're only 13... your a cup will grow eventually and who needs a boyfriend at this tender age? just concentrate on your studies first.
who knows in time to come, guys will start swarming to you?

Answer 10

girl fix ur hair put on make up and put the one outfit u look the cutiest in and that always helps my that will make u feel so much better and ur not ugly u r probably the prettiest gurl.