Anyone else have a spouse that has no appreciation for good kissing.
What's the point of having a mate who isn't into kissing.
Does anyone else think kissing is about the sweetest/bestest thing in the world, and yet their partner couldn't care less about good good kissing?
Have you ever wished for a kissing paramour, just so you can have some good kissing? Ever feel like you could just die from the lack of good kissing?
2006-08-10 15:48:07 · 47 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not alone in the world. My husband is not a kisser. He french kissed me once when we were dating. I know, then why is he my husband?? Well, that is beside the point at this time. Kissing is a very romantic way to show affection. It is also a very passionate way to show love. I do believe kissing is one of the sweetest ways to show love and affection. Having a partner who does not like to kiss is confusing and frustrating. I feel your pain. I do miss kissing as well. Have you talked to your partner? I have and he is like oh well...he thinks a peck now and then is fine. Everybody has their thing I guess. Good luck, and you won't die from not kissing, you just might feel like you will though.
2006-08-10 15:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Oh, god, yes! I completely can relate to what you're saying and going through. It's almost unfair that you can't actually die from not getting it. I had a girlfriend that was such a great kisser, and one day she told me she didn't want to kiss me anymore. I thought I was going to go crazy...but here I am, six years later. We broke up a few months later, and I've never been kissed since. I still miss it, but I'm still alive. Yes, I have a girlfriend again since April, but we haven't kissed yet. The one thing I've realized about kissing is that it's always best when both people are into it. So, I'm willing to wait until the time is right, cause I love her and I know it'll be good because we love each other. Gosh, I feel bad for you. I don't know how you can get someone that doesn't like kissing to appreciate it. It's such a beautiful and bonding experience.
2006-08-10 16:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes my husband is not a kisser. He just more or less does the peck on the lips kind of thing. I feel like an old married woman at times. Yes I do miss the passionate kisses that I got from other guys. (not the guys, just the kisses) I am a kisser, but I love my husband more than kissing, so I just kind of deal I guess. (although just once I wish my husband would just walk up to me and lay one on me)
2006-08-16 08:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by addybme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is not a kisser. We used to kiss lots...and good ones...before we were married and then, when we got married, he sprung the news on me! He stopped kissing me and I asked why...he said..."I dont like kissing and didn't figure I had to now that we're married. Well sixteen years later we are still married and he makes up for it in other areas! I love him more than the kisses. You will live! But, if you absolutely can't stand it, tell him either he will give you a good long wet kiss or you just might have to kiss some total stranger to satisfy your cravings. He might give in ;-) .
2006-08-17 16:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes my now ex husband could not kiss and I lived with it. I caught him cheating with his first cousin and left him, a good friend of ours was there for me. One night he kissed me!!! Oh my GOD! I felt like I had been hit in the head by cupids sledge hammer and have not be able think clearly ever since.
I do belive that kissing is the most sexiest part of a person and the most sensual act in a relationship. I don't know what to say to you. I would not have left my husband because I did not like the way he kissed but I sure did luck up.
2006-08-17 05:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by cindy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've given this answer to other questions, but to repeat a wise woman's words, "kissing requires intimacy and intimacy means 'into me I see".
My husband always gave kisses that made my knees weak when we dated and three days into the honeymoon he cut the honeymoon short to go back to work and it became if I get an average of one kiss a year (which I beg, plead, cry, rant, etc to get) it is a lot. I used to ask him why and he would always say he didn't know - which he may actually not consciously know. Sometimes it helps to realize that it is his issue and not mine and sometimes nothing helps soothe the feeling of loss. But I did reach the point where I don't really want him to kiss me because I over-analyze it when he does. "Maybe if kiss good enough he will want to kiss me more." "Is he kissing me because he wants to and loves me or just to get me off his back?" and so on and so on and so on.
It comes down to we all go into marriage with expectations and every so often those expectations must be re-evaluated and adjusted. If there is something you are not willing to settle for when weighed against all the other positives, then that is your personal decision.
2006-08-10 16:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your spouse never kisses you?
No kisses = No Hot Mamma.
My spouse is a kisser so no need for a kissing paramour and not
gonna die from lack of kissing.
2006-08-10 15:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by backroadhome 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
43 mm, my wife of 12 years has never enjoyed kissing as much as I. A good Kiss can be as productive as 30 minutes of foreplay for me! Problem is, I've kissed other women in recent years...am I cheating or just enjoying the heat of passion?
2006-08-18 07:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to kiss. My ex wasn't much of a kisser at first but as his feelings for me got deeper, he did more kissing. But some people just don't like to do it that much. And you don't want someone to kiss you unless they really want to. It's not good if both of you aren't into it. His thing was that his mother always told him that people's mouths are nasty. She totally traumatized him. I think it was her way of keeping him close to her and trying to keep him from getting too close to another woman. She's one of the reasons he's my EX now.
2006-08-17 06:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO my hubby loves the total experience of making love but I know how you would feel.. The thought of not feeling that connection of emotions would drive me crazy....
I wish I had the answers that could help but sadly if she doesn't wake up she may end up losing you who sounds like a very loving and attentive hubby....
Kissing is interlocking of two souls and goes much deeper than just sex..... This one is definitely when making love.... Not just sex... I understand the importance..... Best wishes to you....... ♥ Sorry I was not more helpful..... ♥
2006-08-11 21:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Princess ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋