what do you do when adivorced father who did not want children allinates the 12 year old from her mother for r

Question

personal gratification? who do i turn to she was never wanted now he is mr , wonderful in hieryes because he caters to her and callls her and text messages her when it is not his day.we had the most wonderfull mother daughter rlationship and now she barley talks to me and growls when she does.i never told her what he did to divorcehom because i think she is to young yet he tells her lies and she believes them help please. sk

Answer 1

I know how you feel. Just let her have that relationship with her father. Telling her what her father did in the past will only make you bad in her eyes (teenager thing) and will deprive the father of your child to get to know him..Maybe he really wants to have a relationship with her..I thin you will get her love more if you try to act nice to your ex around her. Believe it or not...your daughter might act like this now..but in the end...she will still love you more than her father:)