have you ever been in a relationship where someone stays or youve stayed because of what that person does for you and not because they love you? or vice versa...
2006-08-10 15:23:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes I have and I can't ever do it again. I was with this guy for 3 years just because he was really good to my daughter. He was awesome but for some reason I never really loved him. I was good to him and never cheated but that special love just wasn't there. I only staid for my daughters sake. I know it sounds weird but her biological father was very abusive and I just felt safe with the other guy. well it came down to the day he popped the question and I just couldn't do it . It wasn't fair for him or me I had to leave and told him everything. It sucks but I wish I could have loved him but it never came.
2006-08-10 17:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by katie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and for different reasons:
In my single years, I used to meet somebody and just share some nice moments...Why not if protected. - Pure sex service -
Twice I meet a wonderful man that I admired because of what they are but I had no any sexual attraction for them. I stayed in relation with the first one - one of a kind - for about six month. At the end, I could not stand him and it was against any reason. I decided to tell him that despite his enormous qualities as human being, handsome, lovely, etc, I have been not able to fall in love with him, ask forgiveness and left.
Being broken and somebody offering help, then became grateful and giving myself for a while? Also
Admiring someone with a unique talent, confusing that feeling with love, even if obvious, and having a forbidden relation? I confess.
Well, I suppose that I could keep on writing, but is enough. Isn' it?
2006-08-17 09:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , so many times I just went for a one night stand because I just needed to be hold and I didnt have any feeling for this guy
2006-08-16 03:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i only dated this guy i know just to have a baby by him and i didn't love him i just wanted to have his baby and his money.
2006-08-15 17:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by sunsetlove718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and not all relationship are going to start off with love it has to work it self to that first.
2006-08-17 18:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many times. Till now also doing the same.
2006-08-18 04:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it was mad crazy sex and we both stayed without any feelings. It was incredible.
2006-08-16 23:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course!
2006-08-17 15:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋