Hi to everyone, I hove something we can consider it as Q, what you prefer married virgin woman or no and why?

Question

the question answer will help us toexchange the view of the married , I hope we will get the benefit from the answer and (^__^) to be fair if the person that will answer the question is woman I hope she will answer from here view like if she like to be virgin when she will married or not, however I hope the people who will answer this question to mention gender. Thanks alot

Answer 1

It is terrible to say, however, a virgin in this day and age, are far and few between

Answer 2

The funny think is, men (lemme say some) prefer to know their wives to be virgins when they've been active their lives. Yes, it hypocritical and I dont know why exactly. Personally, I dont want to know about my wife's past and would prefer that she doesnt either.
But here's a scenario. Suppose we didnt share our pasts with each other and then we had a fight. All of a sudden, I (or she) realizes that I (or she) take(s) solace with my/her ex. Thats certainly wouldnt speed up our reconcilation.
So, I think its an entirely personal thing. The woman is free to decide whether she wants to keep the 'special' gift for her husband or not and so is the guy.

Answer 3

As a woman, i always think staying chaste until marriage is still a personal choice.. although i live in a very religious country wherein we were taught Virginity is the best gift you can offer to your husband, experience had taught me that it is still not a guarantee to make you a better person or make u above all those others who chose to loose their virginity nor will guarantee you that ur marriage will last (i was a virgin and i am now separated LOL). really, its just a piece of flesh and by itself will not make u good or bad to other people...

Answer 4

I am a woman. I think being a virgin up until marriage is not good. It will just leave the woman wondering if the sex she gets from her husband is good and how it is with other men. A woman who has been with other men knows how good her husband is and does not wonder about other men. Women, just like men, have oats to sew - wildness to get out of their system before they will be Happily settled down.

Answer 5

As a sexually active single man it would seem very hypocritical of me to hold my spouse to higher standards than I hold myself. A marriage is the start of a new life together, what matters is what comes after, not before.

Answer 6

it would be a hell of a lot easier to answer the question if it were worded in a way as to be understood. married implies non virgin....my headache was gone, ty

Answer 7

i'm a virgin currently....i would want my wife (future wife because i'm single) to be the same as me....i mean if i'm a virgin then i'd want her to be a virgin...and if i'm not one then i wouldn't want her to be one either

first both of us being virgins means a lot for preventing STD's...not to mention it's very romantic to lose your virginities together at marriage....

the problem is that if one is a virgin and one isn't...the pressure to "perform" on the night of sex is greater....what if it's bad....what if you don't know how to do it...i'm still worried about my first time.....

so if i'm not a virgin then i wouldn't want her to be one...that way we both are conditioned and know how to make that first night of marriage extra extra special....

so virgin or not...for me what matters is that you're both virgins or you're both not virgins.....that way it's easier

Answer 8

male didn't have sex with a woman till 2 months before i got married ,it didn't bother me or my wife to be who had, had sex before with other men.
so whats the big deal?
it's up to the individual , I was ok with it some people may not be

Answer 9

Whether or not to loose it is my choice and mine alone. Not based on the preference of someone else.If you are scared,then dont loose it.And if you do loose it,then play safe.
How about this one...would you prefer a virgin groom or not?I would not.I dont want to spend the most beautiful night of my life fumbling about.

Answer 10

im a woman too and i think i agree slightly with the first answer. its not nice to sleep with everyone but i believe u gotta see how it is with the man im goin to marry. i know this gurl she never had sex with her man. she waited for after the wedding. than she got to kno her man couldnt have sex cuz he had sum problems. tell me how messed up is dat.