Married 24 years, both good looking (daughters' friends say), no cheating, doctors haven't helped, counselors haven't helped (they said "it's amazing you are even together" ???) used to get all kinds of crazy, did we wear it out?
2006-08-10 15:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by ladystardonna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not sure if there is a way to do that. If he is not committed to being a complete partner for you then nothing is going to move him.
He just does not appreciate the specialness of sex between a husband and a wife.
There are lots of people in this situation, I know, I am one of them.
Check out the SWAGE support group, or write to me for more info.
2006-08-11 02:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very unfortunate. I have heard some ppl say that when all else fails, go back 2 the beginning. Go back and remember when u first started, the flirting, the look in your eyes, the hunger. I know it may sound crazy, but i believe u can wear a good thing out if your not careful. that don't mean it cant come back, the most important thing will be communication. Find out any fantasy that u or him might have, go from there. It will come back if the love is still there. good luck.
2006-08-10 22:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the pace and do something different and fun. Although congrats on the 24 years people don't get to say that much these days with the divorce rate. Get your hubby off of that couch even if you have to burn it.
2006-08-10 22:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God you're scaring me...when you find out, let me know because I could'nt take it if my husband never touched me. I hope we're not wearing it out...we've been married a year and some change and we're together pretty much every night. We may have one off day a week...but that's about it. Is that too frequent? Anyway, good luck.
2006-08-10 22:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by danielle_la_flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a 90 day supply of ENZYTE and Ogoplex. Look them up on Google.
Oh, and maybe try sneaking in the shower with him and do all the washing for him.
2006-08-10 22:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Darth_Rambo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back. Go back many years. Find that one thing that attracted you guys to each other. Remember those nights that when your dates ended and you were on cloud nine? What was that?
Find that one common denominator, and expand on it. Shed light on it.
Take it one step further, take overnight trips, stay away from the house and "step-out" WITH each other.
Whatever that one thing is, find it and quick. I didn't and ultimately ended my marriage. The bad thing is, in retrospect, I know what our one thing would have been.
It just too late now, for me.
2006-08-10 22:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mike B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a toy and ask him to help you with it. Most men get turned on by this.
2006-08-10 22:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with TURNING THE TV OFF!
2006-08-10 22:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by armywifeoftony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a strip tease for him while he is on the couch.
2006-08-10 22:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't find a new toy boy,It works
2006-08-10 23:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋