2006-08-10 14:49:31 · 13 answers · asked by xxalexxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hon, don't worry! It happens a lot. I HAD this friend in 7th grade, she just moved to my area the year before. We were friends all throughout 7th grade, just us two, we were really tight. Then 8th grade came and she just decided to ditch me. She never gave me a reason, nothing, just stopped talking to me. Then the rumors began. There were rumors that I was anorexic, sleeping with all the guys in our grade, (yeah, in 8TH GRADE!!!), she said more stuff, but I can't remember. Anyway, she kept saying stuff about me, she took away almost all of my friends and turned everyone against me, just like you're saying your ex-best friend did to you. It sucks doesn't it? When you go to school you feel like crawling into a corner and just sitting there the whole day. I cried many times, at school and at home. It got really bad. She made me so paranoid and made me not want to come to school or anywhere else that she would be. After a while I realized, I don't need to be afraid of her or make her happy, I didn't even want to be her friend anymore, all I cared about was getting my friends back. So instead of confronting her like everyone else told me to do, I went up to my other friends and started talking to them and told them that the rumors they heard weren't even close to being true and that I wanted to try and be their friend again. They were completely understanding and now, 2 years later, that girl just broke up with her only best friend and is trying to crawl back to me. I'm definitely putting her in her place. So, hon, just give it time, try and make your friends believe you. By the way, forget about her. Even if she does bother you, pretend she doesn't. Act like you could care less about what she says.
Good Luck! :)
2006-08-10 15:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by honeybfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing there's no revenge that can do or feelings to repair cause if u go around trying to tell everyone this person is a lair u have nothing to prove n if people beleive her then let it be.God will Bless u and take care of you just pray and hope for the best and practice good since of nature Do upon others as u want others to do upon you
2006-08-10 16:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't state what it was that you didn't do that she has everyone believing so all I can say is to tell these people that she is lying and explain your side of the story if they will let you and if not, get some new friends. If they turned on you without hearing your version then they weren't real friends anyways.
2006-08-10 14:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand...do not explain yourself or bring yourself down to their level..what goes around comes around- the day will come when she will need you to defend her and it will be up to you whether or not you would want to walk by herside while others are doubting her and this will show how big a person that you are.If they beleive her then none of them is worthy to be called your friends and like that famous feather pillow when torn open in the wind sorry to say those feathers can not be caught the same with lies about you..can not be changed or undone and I know it hurts but in time it will go...just know that God sees all and will defend you....
2006-08-10 15:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this works for each guy or woman yet whilst some thing like that took place to me, i wouldnt provide a sh**, the subject those days is that unquestionably everyone seems to be being concerned thank you to a lot approximately what others think of roughly them, in simple terms be your self, your man or woman character, instruct your man or woman thoughts in direction of others (with a bit of luck not the undesirable ones), those around you who nonetheless such as you're those you may anticipate. in case you care that a lot approximately what others think of roughly then you definately in simple terms set issues at as quickly as, confront human beings peacefully and end any fake rumors approximately mendacity and so on. dont commence any added issues. desire this facilitates
2016-10-01 22:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't your friend in the first place, leave this one behind, there are plenty of true friends out there, you'll find another friend. Good luck. Have a nice evening.
2006-08-10 14:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by beautie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she wasnt a very good friend so it good yall arent friends anymore and the friends she turned against u they were ur real frieds they wouldnt have listened it is at difficult times when u c who ur real friends r
2006-08-10 14:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOve on. what is with these best friend questions tonight. I swear I never had these types of issues. Are you sure she was your friend to begin with cuz it don't sound like it.
2006-08-10 14:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it girly he's not a real men if he did that. dont let it get to you baecause you are probably beter then him and the rest of them if they would do that to you
2006-08-10 15:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her out in front of everyone, tell them all the truth
2006-08-10 15:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋