my mother does not know i have a boyfriend and she wants me to have my first kiss at 19 I am 14 and I just had my first kiss yesterday do I tell her or wait until the time is right?
2006-08-10 14:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whatever.she'll probably kill him though
2006-08-14 02:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by quack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting until you are 19 for your first kiss is unrealistic. Most girls have their first kiss a lot sooner than that. Tell her and assure her that you are planning to take it very slowly. If she finds out about your boyfriend, she won't trust you. Just be honest; you have nothing bad to hide.
2006-08-10 14:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!! She can't do anything after all anyways... She can't undo the time and prevent you from the kiss.. The worst thing you may get is your mum asks you to break him up but hey, tell your mum you are only 14 and want to be loved as special person. So you wouldnt be fooled by someone else when you get older
2006-08-10 14:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you risk making her angry? How is your relationship woth your mom? Are you usually open about things, do you normally discuss everything with her? If so then I suggest it's ok to tell her, because that way she knows that you do not have a problem telling her anything and she will have peace of mind knowing that if something were to happen you would tell her.
2006-08-10 14:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How simple was life at age 14? The good old days. Can anyone relate?
2006-08-10 14:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by iamiandme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with her and be like:
"look mom, i know you didn't want this to happen, but i think i can handel myself. I met this guy, and i really like him, and he treats me right...he's so nice too. Anyways...he's my boyfriend...and i don't want to hide this from you anymore...because your my mom and i know you'll like him. I'm not going to do anything like that with him, but we have kissed. Nothing too serious...just a kiss. I want you to meet him..."
She'll react how ever she does...she can get mad, but know she'll soon have to get over it...or she will be reallly happy for you. I hope it's the secound one and she says something like "When can i meet him?"...but...i hope it goes good with you! Good luck!! You shouldn't hide this stuff from your mom. God Bless!!!
2006-08-10 14:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mom about your boyfriend. She only wants to protect you and the best for you. she may delight with you in this new friend and she should tell you why she wants you to wait for surtain things.
2006-08-10 14:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by concerned mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you definetly should because i have a friend who alsways kept on hiding from her mother about her boyfriends and she saod it was always hard to hide it. maybe just tell her. what is so hard about it anyways. she will find out sooner or later
2006-08-10 14:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her when you think the time is right, because your parents are just trying to protect you!!!!
2006-08-10 14:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tinck u souud tell her becase if she fines out she will get even mader just tell befor do not get mad but i have to tell u something then tell her
2006-08-10 14:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by reyes_eman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK ITS KOOL THAT UR NICE AND IM ONLY 12 AND I HAVE HAD A B/F/ BEFORE AND MY MOM HAS FOUND OUT ABOUT IT AND SHE CANT SAY ANYTHING NOW CUZ IT WAS THE PAST!!! BUT U DO WAT U FEEL IS RIGHT FOLLOW UR HEART!
2006-08-10 14:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋