I would like do have a threesome but my girlfriend doesnt,?

Question

What should I do?

Answer 1

Well this is tricky.

Is she even bi sexual at all? If not, sorry there probably not much you can do.

But, if she's OK with new things and is curious assure her that she will have most if not all of the control of the situation.

Let her pick the girl, let her be in control when having the threesome, and be a bystander at first. If she wants you to join in let her be the one to tell you for now. Just have it like this the first time to let her get used to the idea. It's not easy to share the one you love with another woman.

Answer 2

Are you talking about a 3 some with 2 girls or you, another male, and your GF? As a self centered man-your probably referring to 2 females. What if your GF said OK for the 2 guys and her, would you feel rethink your question? He may be able to pleasure more than you, which would definitely screw with your pride, self respect, and how you would feel about your GF. So, my answer is that you should ask your GF for only what you would also be willing to give-and that includes taking part in the sex act; if your expecting the same from her. Think it through, are you willing to partake in kissing, fondling, fellatio and anal sex with another man? If you are, then maybe you should try that out first, and then ask your GF and let her be a part of that relationship if she agrees. A word of advice--neither of you will "see" each other as the same person. Your brain will become like a video camera that will turn on when your awake, and your nightmares will awaken you. I don't think there's anything wrong with people who have consensual sex, but please don't push, make her feel guilty, or offer her the moon and stars. You would be screwing with her life and her self respect.

Answer 3

that could be a problem...simple though. If u love this girl, forget the threesome, if u love the idea of a threesome more then find one that will. good luck on that situation.

Answer 4

I love doing Threesomes but at first I wasn't into it. I wouldn't have even thought about doing it. I finally just did it one day and loved it. It takes a lot of trust in both people you do it with. Maybe she will just do it one day. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Have you sat down with her and really talked about it? Do you know why she's not interested, and does she know why you are? There are a lot of reasons why she might not be into the idea, and some of them can be worked out by a good, honest discussion. Some of them, however, cannot, and you may have to accept the reality that this is something that will not happen so long as you are with her. Good luck.

Answer 6

I wouldnt do a threesome either.. ever.. so don't pressure ur girlfriend. Would you really want to pressure her into doing something she is not comfortable with:?

Answer 7

You have to respect your girlfriends wishes on that one, otherwise you will do serious, permanent damage to the relationship. You can certainly fantasize, and try other fun/kinky things out with your girlfriend like new toys or bondage or something else that might turn you on. Just make sure you both agree.

Answer 8

if you are really into your girlfriend, say you love her. Then accept the fact she does not want a treesome. In most cases, if you tell her ok, no treesome, she may try to make up for the missing girl. THATS GOOD NEWS FOR U.

Answer 9

Respecting her wishes will probably KEEP your girlfriend. Keep pressuring her & you will most likely find yourself single. Then you can have a 3-some with whomever you'd like. Nothing is worse than a woman feeling like she can't satisfy her boyfriend/husband. You are probably making her feel awful & very unattractive.

Answer 10

Well, if you love your girlfriend, then let it go. Maybe she'll change her mind in the future. Things like this can ruin an otherwise good relationship so be careful.