jus a week ago me and my bf were in love and were makin plans for the future.we ve been together are year and he said he loved me and didnt want to be without me and that he will marry me and we swore on that.and then jus out of the blue he says we r not ready for a relationship and that i need to grow and experience life alone. im in college and he isnt.and hes not the smartest person in the world.but i love him for who he is. he wont talk to me cus he is afraid of facing me.and hes hurtin. i asked his friend y he said he did it?.. and they said he did it for me. should i beleive he still loves me and should i go after him? cus i love him to death. and we were so happy together. a friend of mine said she saw him at the mall holding hands with another girl.i asked him about it and he said it was his friend. and i beleive him and trust him completly. but he jus wants to be friends for now? it was said that hes doin it for my own good? so should go after him. im miserable without him?
2006-08-10 13:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by Kyiri 18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let's face it, he is not intrested in you anymore, that's the thing, guys always say that when they don't want girls anymore, it's for ur own good, i don't believe in that...
Anyway if u want him back just let him go and say OK that works for me, then he will be back soon,
Remember : All the people around the world want something that they can't have , so if he thinks why did she do that? I mean isn't she intrested in me anymore? what the hell? should i get back?
is there another guy in her life? (these questions will make him come back to you)
---let me say that maybe he is scared of future as well, swearing on loving is not a little thing to do, if you both were serious...
Good Luck
2006-08-10 14:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he is going to hold hands with someone who is just a friend. You also can't believe everything that his friends tell you either. Of course his friends are going to cover for him. I think you should just leave him alone and see what happens.
2006-08-10 15:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's too many fish in the sea to waste your life on a guy who just wants to be friends.
2006-08-10 13:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋