Been dating this guy for 5 months. We met during the time him and his baby's mom were split up. We BONDED like crazy. Not only was the sex good, but connected mentally and spiritually. During this time, he never lied to me about trying to make things work, and her possibly coming back home. She left due to him cheating on her, lots of times. They have 2 kids. I told him that our friendship was great, but I was graceful enough to walk away when she returned. Which is exactly what I did when she finally came back.
He didnt want to let go. While we did cut the sex off, he still wanted to talk to me like we always did. He always told me that he couldnt be selfish, so he knows I will move on, but he wants to know my every step because things "may not work out with her." They have a VERY distrusting, noncommunicative relationship, which is why he wanted to still be friends with me. (Even she admitted that she doesn't really support him, sex him, or even like him)
Why are they 2gether?
2006-08-10 13:48:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And how do you think he feels about me. He always told me and everyone else that he never looked at me as just a n*t, and that I was the only girl he would put on the
She found out we were still talking and she made him stop. I wonder if he still thinks about our friendship, especially due to the fact that she's proud to say that she sleeps in the daughters bed and he only wants her there for the income and so she wont sue him for child support (words from her mouth).
Everyone says she's just gonna leave him again, but iono.
2006-08-10 13:57:36 · update #1
That was, I'm the only girl he would "put on her level", he has much respect for me, and he's never met a girl like me before.
2006-08-10 13:59:54 · update #2
And he even told her that I was nice and a "good girl". Shen knows he has feelings for me.
What is their relationship possibly like?
2006-08-10 14:01:14 · update #3
He's there because he's got kids with her. Oh and he's got you pretty snowed too - wake-up time for you!
2006-08-10 14:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's kidding himself and he's very confused. I do believe he might have real feelings for you, but the truth is, his marriage is half the way it is, BECAUSE he has feelings for you. If he ever wants his marriage to work, and I mean really work, he needs to leave you alone and work on his marriage. Why are they still together? For the sake of the child, for the sake of the vows they made together. Whether or not they want to admit it to themselves or anyone else, they're hanging on because deep down they still care.
You'd be doing them and you a favor honey to bow out and find a single man who will give you--and only you--his whole heart. Not pieces of it. You deserve that, and his wife and his daughter deserve all of him. It can't work with him, hon. They never do. It's a fact that married men never leave their wives.
2006-08-10 14:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of ****....if he is cheating on her, then he will cheat on you........i've been there, I know......ask yourself, if he is dishonest and cant make a commitment with her, why do you think he can be different with you........You are only taking on a relationship with baggage (baby included)
2006-08-10 13:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by toni l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh!! Both of you grow up you try and get real lives.
2006-08-10 14:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋