What do I do?

Question

I use to date this guy a really long time ago and we lost contact, I still think about him even though I havent seen him in 13years, he was the most sweetest person in the world and I truly can say I miss him, It is so strange because no matter how many relationships I get in its like no one compares to him, Some say I'm, crazy for still being in love with someone so far away from my past but I'm sorry I just cant help it, I wish I could find him even if its just for friendship nothing else , some people tell me to find him others say go on with your life, I still dream of him just like it was yesterday and his face is so fresh in my mind , Can someone please tell me what I should do and I need honest opinions only please do not tell me something that you think will make me feel better because honesty is the best policy.

Answer 1

I think that you should try and find him. You will never be able to completly move on until you resolve this issue.

Answer 2

What you wrote about do happen, as we some times meet some one that our feelings,Mentally, spirtually and psyche to name a few of the feelings just fit like a gove with this person.

No matter what people say you just can't bring your self to love any one else, or care for some one else like you do for this person. Those feelings are even worse if you two were intimate as your feelings have some thing to gather energy from like a battery source or a generator once you think back to some intimate moment.

At times it seems like you are in a time capsule when you think back to some date, event etc. Not to mention some taste, smell or little subtle details that only some one like your self can pick up on.

A lot of people change over time, the mode of change can fall in to so many circumstances like family, job and other things as well as financial as well to name a few. If this person have not contacted you it is either he have some one else in his life or have some reason for that long absence.

It is wise to be prudent if you are to contacrt him after a long time as the cobwebs of those years may surprise you.

The final decision is yours as to were you want to go with this situation. If he have a family or is married you will have to move on as well as to let go. If you continue to have those feelings you are just killing your self in the long run.

Answer 3

See if you can find him either via the internet or some other way. At least if you could talk to him again you might be able to get some closure. Who knows, maybe he's unattached and you two can finally get togehter.