I have been reading up on the whole cheating thing lately-just curious honestly- and the general concensus says that women cheat for the feelings they get and men cheat for the physical- in most of the cases. All the books say that most men who cheat say they are "happily" married and want to stay with their wives. Why? I really don't get it--not at all- When I was with my love, the thought of cheating never even occurred to me- so when I hear about all these happily married people straying--???? What are your thoughts on this?? I spoke to a woman I know about why she cheated- and she said she was glad that her husband never found out and glad she did it because it helped her grow as a person- hmmph--do people cheat because they are so afraid to change themselves- their lives- do they actually believe they are in a happy marriage- are they just clueless??
2006-08-10 13:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you only cheat in marriage if you are bored, unhappy, dissatisfied and discontented and want to try out something new and exciting. you don't think of cheating your partner if you are happy and in love. Get?
Do away with that consensus...men are men and they can be liars!
2006-08-10 13:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by (◕‿◕✿) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when the men are denying they have its martial problems, and tell everyone it is just the happy marriages they are in to avoid going into the conversations into the" long story" ones and "why" to answer if the other people find out. I guess.
I don't get it either-not at all! Men will always be Mars in their own ways!
2006-08-10 20:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Julie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men I think cheat for the sexual gratification...especially those that have wives that are not interested in sex
Women.... lacking the attention they get from their boring husbands at home and are more than happy to hear all the wonderful things their lover has to say to them (and we actually believe it all too tee hee)
2006-08-10 21:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by suga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY THINK HAPPILY MARRIED PEOPLE CHEAT BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE DESIRE TO BE WANTED BY MANY. IT IS GREAT ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU FIRST FALL IN LOVE AND GET MARRIED, BUT WHEN YOU'VE BEEN WITH THE SAME PERSON SO LONG AND THEY START TO APPRECIATE YOU LESS PEOPLE BECOME FLIRTY WITH OTHERS AND IT IS EASIER TO NOTICE WHEN OTHERS AROUND YOU ARE COMPLEMENTING YOU OTHER THAN YOUR SPOUSE. THIS DAY IN AGE IS TERRIBLE BECAUSE THEY REALLY NEED TO BE MORE COMMITTED AND SEE THAT THE PERSON THEY MARRIED THEY MARRIED FOR A REASON AND THE OUTSIDE RELATIONSHIPS ARE A PH ASIDE
2006-08-10 23:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by 12good2get 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the need for that new attention that wears off in a normal relationship after you get to know some one well, I think that some people just want that new flirting feeling and sex is abundant in a newer relationship, I think that humans are attracted to that feeling and want it a lot more when they haven't had it in a while
2006-08-10 20:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat because they have no scruples and they are men, of course.
Women cheat because they are trapped in an unhappy marriage and they have no scruples.
2006-08-10 20:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by chubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people need a variety
2006-08-14 14:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have a desire for things they havn't experienced.
2006-08-10 20:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by nonsanekp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋