what am i doing? is it right or wrong?

Question

At my school, as in many, there are groups of people, the groups at my school are the brainy, the party guys, nerds, losers-antisocial and the others, well i don't belong in any of them (i am brainy-antisocial) but i talk to all of them my only two friends are in the group of the losers anti-social and i'm very confortable with them, the thing is that today i was speaking with my friends and we saw a brainy guy i salutate him and he stared at my friends with a rejection face and feeling superior, and i didn't like that, and then i asked myself why do i speak to these people who believe that they are the best? so, i started to think this: my life, my little world is like a game of chess and everyyone is like a piece of the chess, you need to think your move very carefully and smartly to win. And then i answer myself the question about why do i speak to the brainy?, and it was because they're pieces of the chess. What do you think of this? Am i doing right or wrong?

Answer 1

I never stressed what people thought of me. I did take up for my friends.
I was friends with vary few but knew a lot of people and saw them outside of school alot. If any thing people left me out of the rumor mill because I refused to comment or repeat. I just didn't care about the Teen social society. I always had dates and plenty of party invites,some times I went and some times not. I don't regret any of it .
Plus in my adult life Lot's of people from high school remember me and say I was the coolest back then and now, due to my not caring about teen drama and great sense of humor.
So my advice is this always take up for the little/weaker guy. Don't let any one pick on any one else in front of you.Be your self and don't say your sorry for being an individual.Don't stress being popular,it's highly over rated any way. I'd know I was and never wanted to be.

Answer 2

It's too bad there aren't more people like you around. But don't push the brainy new guy away, by becoming your friend he too can learn that people with different tastes and lifestyles can enrich his life and make interesting good friends too.

Answer 3

You don't seem anti-social to me. If you exchange salutatory greetings with another person to whom you don't usually you were socializing. The chessboard allegory is a good image of someone who is set in their ways. The pieces can only move within their parameters. If you feel you are limited in your moves. You might want to think of playing more than the game of chess. Try the game of LIFE. Good Luck Teach >:/

Answer 4

There's nothing wrong with talking to lots of different people. In fact, I would consider it good in that by talking to people you generally make them feel wanted, no matter who they are. But I wouldn't bother with the ones who are going to be jerks. If they act like that, they're not really you're friends.

Answer 5

i think your brainy guy is stuck-up. you choose your friends, the rest of the world doesn't have to like them.

Answer 6

is that how it is? in my school there are these "groups" but everyone mingles.... must be a SoCal thing. you really shouldn't ignore people because of their "group"

Answer 7

♥ Talk to who you want and don't talk to people that aren't worth it! ♥

Answer 8

right