even my mother noticed that she is different to me when there are ppl around us, and that she is jealous
2006-08-10 12:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound like be right now, i've been bf's with my friend for almost 13 years and she's treating me like ****. All I can say is just ignore her, or start treating her the way she treats you. My bf only calls when she's bored, has no one else or when she wants something. Honestly, that's not fair to me, and it's not fair to you that your friend treats you that way. Get rid of her, it's better for your self esteem.
2006-08-10 12:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by starchild22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you go and let her know that you do not appreciate the way she treats you and that if she was really your best friend then she would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. To be honest and if you stop and think about it, she is not your best friend, cause a true best friend will always be the same no matter what or who is around, a true friend will tell you when you have done something to hurt them . Me and my best friend have been friends since elementary school and we are both in our late 30's but still today we are the best of friends,and I am the godmother of her kids. A real friend will always be there when you need them even if you havent talked to them in awhile, but the one thing that they will never do is treat you bad or act different around other people nor will they ever be jealous of you. My other suggestion to you is for you to stop and think is this really a friend to you cause some people are just associates that we think are our friends, and once you come up with your answer then go to her and tell her exactly how you feel about you all friendship. If she is really your friend she will understand and apologize to you and change the way she treats you. She will never know unless you tell her. I wish you best and hope that she really is a friend and will come around once you have spoken with her.
2006-08-10 20:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by THICK-N-LOVELYONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me but this time it was my dad that he noticed her behaivor I think that the best way to break up with her is to stop talking to her so much on the phone and try avoiding her and if she asks you whats wrong tell her the truth "i dont like the way you treat me when you do ... or that... " then she'll see her errors... now if she gets butt hurt then screw her move on you can find someone way better that will appreciate you and be your friend :). Why would you want an enemy nearby..?
2006-08-10 19:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
one thing i learn from life you have many of asssociates but very few real friend just be honest with her and tell her how you feel and if she get mad she was never your friend to begin with a real friend is there for thick and thin for the good and the bad and never turn their backs on you and most of all she is happy for you not jealous of you so you need to decide if she is a friend
2006-08-10 19:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it but if she is still treating u like that just say to her that your friends with her anymore
2006-08-10 19:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tenira M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell her straight out that u don't like her tell her u don't like the way she treats u tell her what's wrong she might understand and just change be like if u don't change ur ways were not friends any more
2006-08-10 20:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had to break up with my best friend. I just straight up told her that no one liked her b/c of her attitude. She got mad, but I'm so much happier with out her bringing me down now!
2006-08-10 19:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe im her then tell her everything..
2006-08-10 19:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by tdang424 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋