My now husband once told me he did not care of my past. I was in love with a looser that he worked with (they were'nt friends, just co-workers). We've been married for a year now and I constantly dream of my ex. I feel its a guilt trip. Should I bring it up now even though it may harm my marriage?
2006-08-10 12:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by Hotcakes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its good to be true to yourself and tell your husband about it. But i think you might want to stop entertaining those thoughts. Dreams are excess thoghts that we have when were awake. The things that we want to think but we cant think about it or we should not. The best thing to do is totally forget about your ex, delete him from your memory. If chances come that he gets to your mind- ignore and tell yourself you have the best man! You cant afford to let your married life be affected just because of an ex. Is it worth it? Move on. Totally =)
2006-08-10 12:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by hitmejust1nce 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While you are awake think of all the bad things about your ex. Think of why you broke up with him and why your husband is so much better than him.
2006-08-10 19:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal w/the issues,he's in your sub conjuention for some reason,like unresolved feelings etc.
2006-08-10 19:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by wolvestears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be wise, although your husband said " he doesn't care about your past " doesn't mean its okay to keep it from him, and its doesn't mean you should tell him without thinking/expressing yourself contructively...
Jealosy could be triggered by words not by seeing alone.
You need to clean your mind and your brain too.
good luck.
2006-08-10 19:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ray P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must think of your current one and forget the ex.
2006-08-10 19:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by SimaG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You need to remember what a loser he was and how lucky you are now. Grow up!!
2006-08-10 19:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well stop sleeping because we cant really control our dreams at night ; )
2006-08-10 19:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by justmenotu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to Tim, well you should not worry about it there just dreams, dreams are dreams just stop thinking about him and don't worry they are just dreams...(HOPE THIS HELPS)
2006-08-10 19:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by smiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell him your a ho
2006-08-10 19:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋