me and my boyfriend live together, i trust him and everything!but i guess i'm a fool because i checked my bank statement and it said i took 50 dollars out of my account which was a lie ''he took it with out even telling me ANYTHING'' and kept it a secret for about two weeks untill i found out!!!! I confonted him about it and we had a big argument but i ended up forgiving him,now i'm fed up again because my car payment was due TODAY ''I'M NEVER LATE'' i knew this last week so i asked him to pay it which was last friday his payday and that i would give him back the money this friday which is tomorrow ''my payday''he said ok no problem and said that he sent the money off. i kinda grew skeptical because he went clubbing and spending alot of money on everything else so i decided to call the car place today and they said that they DID NOT receive my payment!! i feel like having a heart attack i need to get rid of him but i love him please help I know he has to go. what would YOU do??????????
2006-08-10 12:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you love this creep? You already know the answer. You don't really love him, you just don't want to be alone. You would rather put up with the misery because it's a familiar feeling to you. You're afraid of the unfamiliar....not knowing who will be there to hold you when you cry, or not knowing how long it will take for you to care for someone else. Don't let fear of the unknown stop you from doing what you HAVE to do to preserve your self respect. You must do it for yourself. No one else will. Take it from me. Been there, done that.
2006-08-10 12:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Enough 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Legally there is nothing you can do but hopefully you learned a valuable lesson. You know what you have to do and the sooner the better before something else happens. You may love him but he doesnt you and is taking you for all he can get, so get out fast and dont look back. Hes lied to you once and will do so again to keep you but hes not worth the bug splat on your windshield. Go find someone decent and that will treat you like a princess. Good luck
2006-08-10 19:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love this guy? Obviously he doesn't give a rats a** what is important to you. He is out spending your hard earned money that you need to pay for you car....you are trying to be responsible. Why don't you do the responsible thing and cut your losses with this guy because it will only get worse from here.
2006-08-10 19:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's clearly using you, can't be trusted and doesn't care very much about you. You need a guy that will treat you like a princess, not lie and steal from you. Go find someone else sweetie, there is better out there!
2006-08-10 19:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the curb with the other trash! You can't trust him,sweety. Don't forgive him so fast. That was your money. Better you found out now than later.
2006-08-10 19:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him its only going to get worse.Next it would be you sent him with money to buy diapers and he spent it on himself.Get rid of him before you stuck with someone thats selfish because he obviously doesn't care about your financial situation.
2006-08-10 19:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by daddysgirl92280 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself? I'm not saying he's not going to change, but he's not going to change as long as you're there to forgive him. If you don't love yourself and don't really want to love yourself then, then there's no right answer for you anyways.
Spend some time alone. It's good for you.
2006-08-10 19:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ramuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a sponge. he will take everything you got. the more you let him get away with it the more he will take. so kick his mooching as to the curb.
2006-08-10 19:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Vodka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU LOVE HIM ENOUGH 2 LOSE EVERYTHING THINK ABOUT THAT
2006-08-10 19:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by dominiperro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!Leave him!
2006-08-10 19:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋