secret 1 her best friend is her ex sister
2 behind on housenote
3 my son do teenage stuff and later I find out
4 being sued, and I just found out
5 and the list goes on and on
2006-08-10 12:18:44 · 3 answers · asked by chrisp972000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should go to a relationship therapy session. A licensed therapist can talk to both of you, and you can uncover even more, about what's bugging her. Who knows, it may be you. And if it is, that may come out too, if there's something about you that's causing her to keep the secrets. And then, though your word alone should be enough, the therapist can get more information from you and what you're trying to do to keep the household together and show to her clearly how what she is doing is not just hurting you, but your kids, and the household. And ultimately, herself.
Since I assume you've been together for a while, you probably wouldn't wanna leave right away and I understand that. You won't feel as bad then, if you at least give some sort of relationship therapy and/or therapy for her a shot.
And if that doesn't work
Remember relationships are built on trust.
If you can't trust her, do what you gotta do.
It's not love no more when you are suffering emotionally, financially, etc. It's more like abuse. Taking advantage.
2006-08-10 12:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by bun223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that is a lot to keep from a person. Maybe she thinks that if you find out about these things that you will leave her. In my opinion, you should not stay with someone who is going to hide things like this from you. Surely there is someone out there that will appreciate you enough to be honest about what is going on in their lives. Good luck!
2006-08-10 19:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is stupid. You should leave if your so unhappy. Life is too short to live that way.
2006-08-10 19:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋