2006-08-10 12:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by Corie M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
God will choose your spouse if you let Him....I did not wait....realized that I married outside His will...nine years and two kids later I accepted this...pray...God will show you whether He wants you to stay or to go....and if you pray hard enough He will lead you to who you should be with...although you still have to live with the choice you made to marry the one you are with now...and with the separation and kid custody and visitation issues...however if you love your spouse...truly love them and know they are the one you are meant to be with...and you should know....the magic never goes away from true love...
2006-08-10 12:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is work,hard work. You must be willing to give 100% and not except anything back. It's trust,listening when you don't what to,and loving without finding fault(you're fat,bald,lazy and don't care). I've been married for over25 years,not all happy,but you work through them and keep going. Try not to look back on the bad times and remember the good times. Know yourself before you get married it makes it easyer. But always hold in your heart your Wedding day.How much you loved that person. Good Luck. I hope I helped.
2006-08-10 12:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everyone goes into marriage hoping for forever,but people change and not always in the same direction.I'd try therapy but if it still isn't working you need to move on,he obviously wasn't the right one for you,and you will find someone else.Good luck!
2006-08-10 12:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is suppose to be for life, but society and our own selfish inclinations have changed that fact. It takes alot of work for two people to stay married to one another...much harder now than back in the day...more outside interruption...more daily stress...the economy...sex, sex, sex...infidelity. I mean, really, it's a real fight. BUT, if both of you want to make it work, you can!!! It's up to you both, one person can not make it work by themselves...both have to make the effort. Is you husband willing to work at keeping your marriage together? I hope so, and wish you the best. (communication and compromise go a long way)
2006-08-10 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had an answer for you; marriages fail for different reasons. Are you both willing to work things out? I pray that things will work out for you.
2006-08-10 12:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact marraige is a contract for cooperation, sacrifices, determination, love ect. Both partners have to take care of the other one, extend full and real cooperation in all matters. To make a marraige successful solid determiation is needed too.
2006-08-10 12:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by SimaG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u forgot what was important, and u let the lil things get in the way n interfer with the fun n attraction u use to have so fix it unless its too late
2006-08-10 12:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine's sucking too - let's cheat together
:)
2006-08-10 12:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some marriages end...
its part of life
2006-08-10 12:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Need more details.
2006-08-10 12:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by All_Dawgs_Go_To_Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋