I am a gay man and I've dated some hispanic men. But the problem is that they tried to be very dominating and they just expected that it was their right to do anything they wanted to me sexually. I know that not all hispanic men are like that, but why do so many act that way?
2006-08-10 12:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BELIEVE me, it's all hispanic men, gay or straight. I'm hispanic and grew up around them. They have this idea that they are the "man", even if there's another man involved. I've never seen hispanic men together, I would think that they cancel each other out.
2006-08-10 12:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've never dated a Hispanic guy, but I can't say I've had the same experience as you. Hanging out with the few Hispanics I've known, none of them have been overly macho jerks -- one I even flat out told I wasn't interested in and he still wanted to be my friend, which I thought was sweet.
Black guys, for me at least, have been another story. Towards me, they've come on way too stongly -- like they own me or something and we've never even met before. And then once they finally get it through their head that I'm not interested, they call me racist. That's what I consider a jerk.
2006-08-10 12:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its a hispanic thing, usually some of them are one of those. I'm hispanic, and I would never try to be dominating over someone. I would treat them how they would want to be treated. I've seen a lot of asshole gay hispanics who think they are all that but they come out of it looking like an asshole. I've seen some that can be very sensitive.
2006-08-11 05:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you think American Gays are looked down on? ROFLMAO. NO WAY compared to Catholic hispanic gay men!
Basically, their taught that they are dead end (non-reproducing) sinful, wasted bags of human flesh that really has no use being left alive. This brings "alot of guilt to the table." Americans are pretty much "catered too" in the fact that even if we are gay, we're still told we have value as human beings, even if we don't as gay people. So, while we're fighting a "few christian bigots" they are fighting their entire society.
2006-08-10 12:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
homosexuals r still relatively new to the Hispanic as for as being accepted so many of them r still hiding from family and friends
2006-08-10 12:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you come off as a pussy. Besides that the culture of Latin countries is male based where our culture is the opposite. If you don't want to be treated that way spit it out and keep your pants on.
2006-08-10 12:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by purplehays 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm too and that i do no longer act all loud and critical to get each of the interest i do no longer want, it does no longer advise i'm insecure about my sexuality. i imagine homosexual delight parades and such activities makes issues lots worse for those persons who do no longer favor to be generalized. i imagine it promotes stereotypes and it sucks. besides the undeniable fact that, i imagine he's inaccurate with the help of putting down female men...even tho i don't sense smooth round them myself, i do no longer positioned them down because i have met nice ones who've change into acquaintances of mine. let him be. i imagine the loud and really femenine men are demanding too and that i'm for sure no longer homophobic, its merely my attitude. i do no longer discriminate anybody, afterall, all and distinctive has the right to stay their lives besides the undeniable fact that they prefer so its really none of my company merely because that's not yours to guage his attitude. comprehend his opinion, no longer all persons ought to trust one theory you recognize..
2016-11-24 19:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its in our blood to be the dominant one, if u want tenderness try other races im sure theyre willing to be tender with u, if u want a man to act like a man, keep dating latino men,
2006-08-10 12:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by hunglow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh please, there are plenty of GREAT hispanic men. i am gay, and there's this one guy i like.. he is the nicest guy on earth.
some hispanics are raised like that.. it's the subculture. but some white and african americans and others are raised that way too.
let's not stereotype. :)
2006-08-10 12:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Me lol 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know any hispanic men...sorry,can't help.
2006-08-10 12:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋