my mother suggested i hold firmly on to my partner's testicles while i give birth. is this safe?

Answer 1

And if you squeeze hard enough - viola, a freebe vasectomy :)

Answer 2

Your mother must have suggested it mischevously as she does not appear to be happy with your partner who had brought to this pass. During labour all the movements of the mother are very intense as she is almost delirious with the pains. Holding on to such a tender part as testicles is a sure guarantee of damaging, I hope not permanently but surely making the boy cry more than you at the time. Don't even think of it.Even presuming your mother had this from some old wives' tale don't pay any attention to it. In fact, it is always advisible not to let the father-to-be in the labour rooom at the time of delivery. Believe me, a woman in pains is not a very pleasant site to see,especially by the loved ones whose associations with such intimacy are sweet memories. They recommend such a step in order to impress upon the mind of the bf to let him see what he has brought the gf to .This is not fair. It is a joint decision.

Answer 3

Ive considered this stupid question in the previous didnt you get your answer you've been searching for the first time! Your mom is an fool. i am going to guarantee you that when I provide start, and that i firmly carry on to my mans testicles, I wont stay to inform about it.

Answer 4

As a mother of five, I defiantly say that this would be a very unwise thing to do.You will need something to hold onto at times,but you are likely to incapacitate him for life!!! Your mother probably needs post birth counselling, if she is any way serious-are you an only child??

Answer 5

It's a loving and Beautiful way to Include your Dear Husband in the Miracle that is the birth of your child... What a better way to say, "Thank you SO much for this experiance, Honey, I Love You TOO!"

Answer 6

You will hurt him if you do it. I take it your mother either is really bad at trying to be funny or else she must not like your partner too much.

Answer 7

I LOVE YOUR MOTHER! Okay, to be serious, no hon, it's not at all safe for your partner, but it COULD give you a great deal of satisfaction during childbirth. (Not that I recommend you ACTUALLY do it, no matter how tempting.)

Answer 8

In the words of my boyfriend" Your mother is evil and should be destroyed" Child birth is natural why would you purposely hurt the one you love?

Answer 9

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then problably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very extreme trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation.
-It even may cause death as result of pain, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail until it stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young. The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress. People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical pain. All the men that like the fetish called “ballbusting”, like it because it happened to them in the past, they are physiologically very ill, it may change his life completely.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to escape harm. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you, not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun, keep it a fantasy.
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools. Women are very mean and cruel by nature. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women.
Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh!
-And nothing happens to these sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

Why don't you do the same thing to your baby, the baby made you "suffer" too. Women are soo stupid and childish!
And about the stupid girls that think this is possible, no Doctor can allow that buy law, you stupid women!
All your questions are related, you are a sick freak!

Answer 10

Well, it is good birth controll. Especially if you want this to be an only child.

Answer 11

your mom is funny Im sure she was joking and if she is serios she must not like your partner.
But for the answer to your question no its not safe. But if you feel you need to go ahead.