I am a 100% lesbian, but I still think some men are hot/cute/whatever. The thing is, I would NEVER have any sexual relations with a man. I have never been with a man and never will.
Is this weird that I think men are hot? I think some men are hotter than women! I think that is kinda messed!
What do you think?
2006-08-10 11:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by loudy_foudy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
NO, it's not "weird." I am 100% lesbian, too. Never been with a male, don't have a desire to, either. I think you just really know how to appreciate beauty when you see it - be it male or female. Just because a lesbian knows a good looking guy or a "hot" looking guy does not mean that she personally wants that for herself. I only do that because I am so used to all the gay men talking like that about the men! So, no I don't see anything messed up about it. You're a real lez, so don't let anyone tell ya differently. Sounds like you are very intelligent and open-minded enough to know who you are and what you don't really want. Some women in this world are just not meant for men, they are meant for women. Some men are meant to be with men. I happen to KNOW that I was just never meant to be heterosexual.
2006-08-10 12:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. I was raised very conserv. and in a small town, so I was never really presented with an option. I dated a respectable guy that I really liked, we became best friends and were married. Our relationship is very sucessful, and we plan to have a family some day. During the past couple of years, I've been realizing that I was interested in other women I knew. I had only ever acted on it when I was young, and with other girls that ended up straight. I have never persued a women, and I would never cheat on my husband, but I still have those feelings. I recently told my husband, and while he was nervous that I would leave him, he respects my feelings and seems ok. I assured him that I love and respect him way too much to cheat on him.
As long as you are happy, and feel good with yourself, go for it.
2006-08-10 20:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by I can see you... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not messed up. People are attracted to attractive people. It's just that they may decide not to pursue. However, if it begins to be a pattern for you, you may want to re-evaluate what you truly like. It would only make you happier and that's what it's about right. Being yourself. There is a such thing as bisexuality. The most important thing is being honest with yourself maybe you like both (that is if your pattern of finding men attractive continues).
2006-08-10 12:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by CuriouslySpeaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not messed up. I am a straight woman and I find women very attractive, but would never be interested in having sexual realations with them. I don't see anything wrong with it. You just have a good eye for attractive people of both sexes. lol
2006-08-10 12:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% gay but I think that Christina Aguilera is soooo HOT every inch of her body is pure sex. My hart beats faster when I see her. BUT I would never have sex with a women even her. And would be horrified if someone thought I was straight just because I love a beautiful women. We are all animals reacting to whatever peaks our senses.
2006-08-10 12:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by reedingcorey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm 100% gay male..but I see beautiful attractive hot women around me all the time...I don't think you're messed at all. I also think that some dogs are beautiful and some flowers as well..but that doesn't mean much either...alll It means is that I appreciate pretty things.
2006-08-10 13:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am straight, but I can appriciate an attractive woman and can be totally turned off my an unattractive man. Thinking a member of the opposite sex is attractive is not what decides your sexual classification. By the way, can you please go answer my latest question? I need some insight.
2006-08-10 12:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I am a man and have no problem with gay or lesbians. If the person is attractive to you what is the problem. This does not mean you have to be intimate with them but you can appricate them. I have seen gay guys that look good, but would not have sex with them.
2006-08-10 12:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are of the sighted world, you can see. I am a lesbian also and find many men attractive. I just don't want them. Its ok to find men attractive.
2006-08-10 19:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by 0219 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it weird that straight women obsess over what other women look like? It's a normal thing, don't worry about it, hun.
2006-08-10 11:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋