I like swearing at my Grandma, is that wrong?

Question

My Grandma doesn't want me visiting her anymore because she says I hurt her when I curse at her. But see I think its funny- for example one day I came over and she slipped and fell to the floor. I laughed and said "Ha! HA! You're old asss slipped, fycking loser!" She had to call an ambulance to help assist her back to her feet, and I lied to the paramedics and told them I wasnt home when it happened- and they believed me and not Grandma because I told them Grandma had bad memory. Anyways Im always eating all her food- Im a big girl- hey we have to eat- and like I love talking with my mouth full and telling her "Sorry Grandma I ate all ur cookies, none for u!" She thinks I should be concerned about my weight but I just laugh and call her an old bytch. Now she wont let me come over anymore and my parents want me to see a counselor. Isnt that stupid? I just think its funny! By the way Im 20 yrs old so Im an adult. My Grandma also got mad when I ate her sandwiches she made her womans club.

Answer 1

The Wooden Bowl

I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law,and four-year
old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table.

But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and foodon the floor."

So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.There,Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather
had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.

When the family glanced in Grandfaher's direction, sometime he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?"
Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth
soiled.

On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems! today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she
handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas
tree lights.

I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a
"life."

I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt
on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.

I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But, if
you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.

I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I
usually make the right decision.

I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.

I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.

People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a
friendly pat on the back.

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.!

Answer 2

Can anyone say "abuse of the elderly"???? Wow, if my grandma had you for a granddaughter, she would kick your "asss, fycking loser". And she is 84 years old.

First off, I have NEVER, nor would I ever be allowed to use the f-bomb within earshot of my grandmother (or mother for that matter). And I swear like a sailor!

You're a joke. And this has nothing to do with pregnancy, thank god! Hopefully, you will never be allowed to reproduce. How you think this is funny is way beyond me. And if you're really 20, then you have the maturity level of my daughter (she's one). So I'm sure, thinking that this is so funny and all, you won't mind if I report this little thing. . .

Have a nice day! Good luck in 4th grade when school starts! :)

Answer 3

your asking if it is wrong
listen to your self
you just answered your own question
if i was your grand mother you would have eaten your teeth and not the goodies i made for ya your an un felling un greatfull grand daughter grow up some day grand ma aint going to be here
my god i cant beleive you treat her this way some one should take you out to the wood shed and beat your A** good or mabey grand ma should fix ya a knuckle sandwitch and feed this to ya in stead of the goodies hell if i was your grandmother id'e ban ya from never comeing to my house read the responses that you have gotten and treat her with the upmost respect you can do you treat your mom and dad the same way good god i hope not cause if you do they need to kick your A** so hard that your grand childeren will feel it mabey then they too will see your nothing but an a**

Answer 4

RU serious? You need to learn some respect. Your grandmother is elderly and she's a lot more mature and wiser than you will ever be. How can you treat her or anyone like that? I hope you learn some respect. Seeing your grandma in pain, cursing at her, and acting like a fool will not get you anywhere. How would you feel if you are treated like that when you're old. You're 20 yrs. old? Ha- you act like you're 2. Please seek some help. You need to learn to respect yourself first and maybe you'll be able to treat others w/ respect too.

Answer 5

First of all you are a fool. an Idiot 20 year old women. to be honest , your grandma deserve to be helped by you, she is the reason you are on earth, that is not funny at all. She is an old women and you are not even shamed to say all that. I respect my grand ma very much and the elderly no matter who are they , the deserve the best treatment from youth. Ia m shaking to read this , because there's no need for you call her names. you are the one need names. you do not need a counsel or , you need a spank.

Answer 6

awww did your other account get deleted, isnt this the same grandma that died after you ate her brownies. Get liposuction and mental therapy and maybe then you can become a contributing member of society instead of a fat lazy biatch who has nothing better to do than annoy strangers on the internet. Have a nice day =)

Answer 7

Are you pregnat? If you are ...............I hope after you have the poor thing that Poor Grandma spanks your hungry butt! You are a sorry for what you do to her.Thats so sad that there is so much elderly abuse.Bless your Grandmas soul for putting up with you.

Ps. Is Edna your Kin Folk?
God Bless & Have a good day!

Answer 8

Girl you need to get right.
Some ppl wish thAT THERE grandma was still here.
You treat your grandma like dirt.
And no i don't think it funny.
You do need help .
You see what i am talking about one day,
But it be too late then.

Answer 9

seriously... what is wrong with you? you might think you're an adult at 20, but you are acting like a silly, spoiled, selfish - not to mention mean- child. yeah.. you do need counseling.. maybe you should try to be nice to your grandma.. i don't blame her for not wanting you over... i wouldn't want to be near you either. do you think you're cool b/c you're mean to her? and eat her food? call her names? your sick.. grow up and stop being such a little brat!

Answer 10

Who are you girl? I wish I could see you, you sound like a very inventive funny girl.How old are you though?...I think you are a teenager who's having a lot of fun reading stranger's inocent answers to your silly invented questions.
make sure you don't die laughing so hard.
And by the way...did you take your breakfast already? ;-)...Who's poop was it this time?..;-))))))))))))...oohhh man...thanks for amusing me today....
You know I have a bad morning sickness and can't even get out of my bed, so I'm so bored...can you make more questions of this kind?...But I'd suggest to make a separate category for them..call it..."jokes"...so that you don't shock people anymore...