I noticed that It's always the guys fault for getting her pregnant but everyone feels sorry for the girl. Aren't they both to blame?
2006-08-10 11:26:06 · 23 answers · asked by Baby_Phat 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Guys are usually blamed because a lot of times people feel they have pressured the girl into sex. Even if they didnt, people still pitty the girl because she will have to live every day with the consequences.... go through the pregnancy and care for the child after it is born. Yes, the man has resposibilities too, but they are only legally financial obligations and dont have to "help" with the baby. I geuss people feel like that is "punnishment" enough and blame isnt going to do her any good. They are both to blame, but the girl obviously gets the harder future out of the two.
2006-08-10 11:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by froggy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A boy may get the blame, but the girl has to endure the shame. She is responsible for carrying the baby to term. She has to decide how to feed and care for the child. If the boy decides to deny the baby the burden of proof is on the girl; if she can find him!
So, if no one is going "boo hoo" for the boy, that's probably why.
2006-08-10 11:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both genders have to deal with the consequences, and society preys on them in different ways, but if that girl thinks she is in love then she will usually do anything that guy wants, so a male has the greater responsibility for the baby. That is just the way God has designed the inner thinking of a woman, so next time think of the responsibility involved before you unbuckle your belt.
2006-08-10 11:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by ladrhiana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It took two and she is the one that shows a pregnant body and he can get away from it she can't
Blame is a strong word and mistake is to easy I look at it that just at the wrong place at the srong time.
Think about helping others know how to prevent you could someday be a hero
2006-08-10 11:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by aaricka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes they both are to blame...if the girl doesn't get blamed...too bad...she has a baby to deal with till its 18
2006-08-10 12:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea ur rite but i guess they feel sorry for the girl cause the guy usually runs off wit another girl or dumbs u before u find out and then ur left on ur own
i know ITS SOOO SAD
and its not rite that dumb s l u t gets off the hook
2006-08-10 11:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by statefrogy_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea girls are the one who go though all the crap when Its a blame thing the guy doesnt even seem to be there for the girl
and girls shouldnt be getting pregnant anyway pregnancy is for married women
2006-08-10 11:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes! but we all know that people makes mistakes and have to pay a price for it some day! when they are caught up in the middle of their "love life" they for get what can happen. but if the guy own up to his responsibility thats good!
2006-08-10 11:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Trouble Maker 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think both need to be blame. She was there when all this going down. she made the same choice as him.
2006-08-10 11:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lily N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see people "blame" the girl too.
2006-08-10 11:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋