2006-08-10 11:15:03 · 53 answers · asked by rosie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Generally speaking, no.
1) You'll forgive him. But you won't regain full trust in him. You two aren't as close as before. Relationship doomed.
2) You'll forgive him. He then starts to distrust you, for fear of retaliation. You two aren't as close as before. Relationship doomed.
3) You really never forgive him. Relationship doomed.
2006-08-10 11:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by jlee1224 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes and some times they are on purpose. Honestly with no information, judgment cannot be made. But in most cases I would recommend no! The guy cannot be trusted, and what kind of a relationship would that be. You will end up hurting your self more in the long run. The guy might learn his lesson and never do it again, but probably not.
It is tough at times what we have to go though because people are not honest to each other. You are better than that, so move on and find another more loyal.
Gregory
2006-08-10 11:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the age old question. but tell u the truth even if he never ever cheats on u again, can u trust him? if u take him back it is gonna be a lot more problems. first u r gonna be jealous over every little thing and u not gonna trust him. it is gonna put stress on u and him. ur relationship will go right down the drain. it is better for u to forgive him and then move on. u will find someone else and be able to trust the new guy and be happy. that is my personally experince also has been many of my friends. find what is right for u. look deep down in ur heart and do some soul searching on this one.
2006-08-10 11:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing I want to do is side with the Once a Cheat Allways a Cheat chorus but in this case they're right. You're here because you've lost trust in him, you'll allways doubt him it has allready crippled your love for him and it's unlikely that it will recover regardless of wheather he stays loyal or not. At this point it would be easier for you to start over with someone new than to try to stay with him and this instance is the perfect place to make a clean break.
2006-08-10 11:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my boyfriend a few years ago. He gave me another chance and we worked out the reasons why I did it in the first place. I am so blessed that he gave me another chance. We got married in May and we have a beautiful daughter who is the center of our lives.
2006-08-10 11:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. Not enough detail. How long have you and your boyfriend been together? Do you know for a fact he was cheating, or is this just hear say? Did he try to defend himself for his actions? I say if you think he is "worth" a second chance then try it out, but let him know he will have to earn your trust back. Love is a wonderful thing, but without trust you have nothing.
2006-08-10 11:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how close you are and if you really had an exclusivity clause in your relationship. There were times when I was dating I dated three girls at once, my Dad, bless his aged heart, had 5. But in those times I never said you are the only one. I will not date any others. That going steady thing, if it is not stated it is not there and he did nothing wrong. If it was, forgive him if your heart lets you but make it clear you expect it to be you alone
btw in time I did choose only one, told her of the others and that they were all over I chose her. Because I did not want to start a relationship without leveling with her first
We were married 3 weeks ago
2006-08-10 11:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he was cheatin on you why should you want to give him a second chance . My boyfriend did the same thing and I never gave him a second chance. If he wants to treat you like that let him don't take him back even if he says he was sorry!!!.
2006-08-10 11:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think first. Did he cheated cuz' you don't have time for him? or did he cheated cuz' he don't love you anymore. Please don't be offend. You need to be wise. You need to be strong. If you believe him that he still loves you, then go for it give him another chance. But if you find him cheating on your own eyes and he never cares if you see him or not, then forget about him totally. Girls must be strong!
2006-08-10 12:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by princessellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u give him a chance, chances r he'll do it again. Move on 2 better things don't wait around 2 give him another chance!
2006-08-10 11:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by razr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No NO never never. He WILL do it again. If he's a cheater he's prolly a good sweet talker too. Don't give in, you'll find better. Better than a cheater is real easy to find as they are at the bottom and you can do better than that. Cheaters don't change they just get better at hiding it.
2006-08-10 11:23:21 · answer #11 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋