I want serious answers,nothing about **** or whore. Why do you think the real reason girls do this? My friend in school use to do this alot and i think she did it because of low self esteem and not feeling loved/wanted at home so she seeked love from going with guys.
2006-08-10 11:05:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry to hear that.
it could be that or she might not have a great father figure in her life and she can be craving male attention or maybe problems at home. its even possible that sleeping with a guy makes her feel special like the guy really wants her . she needs help . stay close to her
2006-08-10 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls don't sleep around but I think you are right, it is probably due to a need to feel loved and perhaps an inability to give love or to feel secure doing so.
Of course doing that is about the last way they *will* find love but then if you haven't the confidence in yourself to want to form a permanent relationship (perhaps because all the ones you've known have ended up hurting you), then you would change partners constantly so as to avoid getting into one.
It is very sad to see that happen and often the people it happens to are more fragile than most (another sign of lack of self-esteem).
2006-08-10 18:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
attention seeking, when you think about it realistically a girl sleeps around because of; depression, low self esteem, no confidence, attention seeking, addiction to s e x. There are many reasons. Guys do it to but i hate the fact that women get a bad reputation like a s l u t or w h o r e whereas a guy wouldnt
2006-08-10 18:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some girls are like some men i don't think its to do with esteem or anything like that. but the pure adrenalin rush and total excitement of sleeping with a different partner for the first time. its a high better than any drug can ever give you. our society judges its wrong to sleep around but that is only because the church tells us so promiscuous society's have been around before like the Romans and there possibly always will be some society that accepts it. its purely down to religious values not who's a slapper and who's not
2006-08-10 18:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You young and when young you are moving around a lot ie high school, uni, travelling the world... does not make sense to be married.
Also trying out boys to see who is best...
Dont have to stay with someone who you dont like...
Plus that age you socialise and hang out with mates more...
So its trainee relationship stuff. Like tag is chase and survive.
Learning who you are.
Hormones.
in females they seek a protector but also good genes... ie a dad for kids often stable but bad boy to father the kids and multiple ones reduces the chance of genetic defaults
Plus more offers
Aint found soulmate yet but why waste your best years till you find him...
then you ahve all these skills and experience to get him
2006-08-10 18:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cause they are not satisfied. You get something you think is good and then you see the next man and your like hmmm maybe he'll be better, and pretty soon you've slept with god knows how many, isn't not really whorish, its more so being unsatisfied all the time, and just tryin to find the one who is going to take you there sexually.
2006-08-10 18:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are damn right , i think thats the reason she did that thing. after a while they realize that sex isnt the answer to all questions and problems. its like discovering a new toy, and they try the new power they got. it must feel very "good" for a girl to play with the boys and give them so much "pleasure" or, more often, " the opposite".
2006-08-10 18:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by rotacka0687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yip...usually they find that they r wanted 4 a time and it makes them feel good,popular even then as they get older they find that they were only popular beacause they were so compliant.Then they end up with self loathing and other issues..self confidence and self respect is the way forward.If some 1 respects u then they wait if not byeeeeeeeeeee...............men respect u more if u hold out even if u r gagging 4 it lol!its a shame that now shes probably found out the hard way
2006-08-10 19:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by nic_uym 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is one of the reasons, hoping to meet someone who stays. The other one is to feel wanted and attractive, or just the fun and experience.
2006-08-10 19:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants to find love or maybe she do need to be wanted. Some people do crazy things that dont make sense at times.
2006-08-10 18:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by bxshorty064 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋