I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get
2006-08-10 10:50:48 · 11 answers · asked by . 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like little boys
2006-08-10 10:51:06 · update #1
I agree with it. I have to spend so much time convincing my girlfriend that I don't care about the size of her breasts that it's not even funny.
2006-08-10 10:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well you said you wanted everybodies thoughtas, mainly guys though... however I am not a guy...but u know what you said is really true...and im telling you when a girl likes a guy(or wants a guy to like them) they will go to no extent to satisfy that guy...even if it means doing rediculas things to make them selves look good... My boyfriend says, that he would rather look at me than trish stratus or something... he says he says that because im real... and i really dont care any more about what people think. I think alot of gurls (expecially the teenaged ones) try way to hard to impress people. They go to extremes...such as, becomming belimic, getting surgury, being anerexic,etc. I think girls need to stop caring what other ppl think, and do things for them selves. I want all boys to know that, being yourself will get you further when it comes to relationships.... don't go and try to be all romantic if thats not you. If your actually an *** then be an ***... if your not than dnt be... Most girls just want someone who will treat them right. Now the problem with girls now-a-days is we believe what guys tell us and thats how we get taken advantage of. NO BODY IS PERFECT.GURLS TRY TO BE, BECAUSE GUYS WANT THEM TO BE,WHY CAN'T GUYS TO ACCEPT US FOR US. why do we have to wear makeup, have a size 1 waiste, DD chest, have long legs,nice butts....? why can't guys just accept a girl when they have: a size 14 waiste,short legs, c cheast, no make up... but have the smarts, is kind, sweet and loving... why do guys want someone who is perfect... they wont get what they want. if you want the perfect girl get with a ******* barbie or something! Duena, I couldnt agree with youmore.What your friend posted is absolutly right, and its sad...but true... anyways in all hopes of guys changing and just accepting us for who we are on the in side and not the outside... i must say... your artical is exsacly right. Thanx for beeing such a sweetheart.If you don't already have a girl, best of luck... you will treat her like a queen. There should be more guys out there like you.
2006-08-10 11:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am nearing 60, and, I never met an 'ugly' woman!
I meet women who are going to be a friend, a customer, etc. One relationship is enough, thank you. But I hope for the best for each, and would help if requested, by letting my wife escort her in public.
But, never let any woman date, or marry a muslim man, for she relinquishes all her civil rights, then! Guess why the flood of Moslem women to marry westerners? They are treated as equals, with respect!
2006-08-10 11:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lump us all into one catagory. :-) Personally I like an average looking woman who can make me think. Challenge my intellect. I also think you can dress conservativly and still be sexy. I like it when a woman dresses to leave something to my imagination. I have no desire to see a womans thong hanging outside her pants.
The looks will eventually fade. You need a personality to keep the interest.
2006-08-10 11:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by bobcat 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I pay attention to song once I do my homework and inspite of the undeniable fact that, i'm a "musical learner" that is usually distracting, if I pay attention a song i surely like i might provide up working and sing alongside. of direction with MY math homework it enables. IT keeps ME wakeful!!!!
2016-11-04 07:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sir are a wise man. A bimbo with no brain is not appealing and hopefully not appealing to most men- My wife-to-be is beautiful to me and she has a brain- she has a vibrant, bubbly personality and we can actually have a conversation. She is my world, to me she is the most beautiful woman alive.
2006-08-10 10:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by darth_timon 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well said! I just hope that you realize that this post will not change the world.
2006-08-10 11:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by La Voce 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-10 10:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Understand him completely...
2006-08-10 10:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by duck_kreeves 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree with that statement.
2006-08-10 10:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋