One night I picked up husm=band drunk at party on same night sister came over after a fight with hubby and got drunkl. The next moring my husband got up and went in my room my sister was in thought she was sleeping or passed out I don't know? He pulled up her shirt and unzipped her pants when she woke up and sat up he said nothing got up and took a shower for work? Mysister did not tell me for months later because she said ( I ssemed so happy and really had no where to go if I was not.) taht is why she said nothing. When I confronted husband he said he was drunk and dont remember. Does this mean he is a rappist? Is this something men do? I am lost....
2006-08-10 10:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by glennakay2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She was passed out when he pulled up her shirt and unzipped pant's then she woke up. My sister said after wakeing up she sat up and he left room. I had a bad feeling about a night we stayed over my husbands brother house so I called my sister in law and asked her about the night we stayed over and he woke up with his brothers shorts on. She finally admitted that after I had fell asleep and her husband (brother in law to me) that my husband and her were up drinking and talking.That my husband asked her to show him her boobs and she said no but had admitted to him if he was not her jusbands brother that she would have sex with him. She got up went in bathroom and he walked in on her and shut door behind him. She said she had to hit him to get him out from in front of the door. We had found out rihgt before this incident that my brother in law and sister in law were swinger's . We are not. my husband has only done this 2 times always while drinking and (sorry sis) Always sluty girls.
2006-08-11 02:34:48 · update #1
why dient she stop him, i dont get it why dient she call out for u? i think he started something with her and she let him continue..i wouldnt say he was a rappist unless she told him no or tried to stop him
2006-08-10 10:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean he's a rapist or molester. He was drunk and so was she. Sometimes people that can't control their drinking are put into compromising situations and they can't explain how they got there, and what happened when they did. If he doesn't have a history of doing this while sober, and has only done it once while drunk, you are safe; he's fine but needs help with his drinking. Good Luck
2006-08-10 10:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the thought. And no, this is not the sign of a molester, but it may be a sign that he needs to stop drinking.
2006-08-10 10:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do BAD things when drunk, you might want to get him some good therapy, and cut the alcohol off from now on
2006-08-10 10:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't tell you for fear that you wouldn't believe her. Your husband knew exactly what he was doing...do not buy into his story that he didn't know. Red warning flags are going up about him.
2006-08-10 10:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a drunk, but since I wasn't there. . . no way to know.
I wouldn't let this guy drink, period. . . not if your marriage is to survive.
2006-08-10 10:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋