I was pregnant, and then me and ma boyfriend broke up. He told his mom and she wants to speak with me. But, I already had an abortion, so what should I tell him and her because they think I am still pregnant? Please help! I know I should have just told him straight up, but I didn't know how... So, no I wasn't tryna deceive him. But, now he is happy, so in a way I want to get pregnant again, so that I can give birth to his child. So, would pretending to be pregnant until I became pregnant de too deceptive?. And, no I am not a bad person, just young and confused. Help me! Thanx...
2006-08-10 10:39:44 · 15 answers · asked by whyme? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Do not get pregnant because he is happy.
Lying is lying.
Tell the truth. You will learn a lot of who these people really are.
...Underage?
2006-08-10 10:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Silver L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There would probably be some unexplainable timing issues if you waited until you got pregnant again and tried to pass the baby off as the first baby. You could tell them that you had a miscarriage or do the honest thing and tell them the truth. Good luck with your difficult decision!
2006-08-10 21:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretending to be pregnant? Don't go that road. Tell it like it is and move on. He wasn't there when you needed him most so you made the best choice you could for you. He missed the boat. I wouldn't rush to get pregnant again with him. If he is the right one he will still be there after you have finished your education and found yourself a great career. Hugs to you.
2006-08-10 21:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're "young and confused" and unable to talk to your partner openly about this, you two probably aren't ready to be parents or to have the lifelong commitment that it takes to raise a child.
At any rate, I think that lying to your boyfriend is not going to do anything but make matters worse. And, I would think that if he ever found out that you lied to him about something this important, that he could never really trust you fully again.
2006-08-10 17:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by fightintxaggie98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth. if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. Sometimes a pregnancy can happen at the wrong time, so that is why it is best to use protection, unless you are really trying to start a family. Good luck!
2006-08-10 17:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by fungurllallthatime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of told your ex-boyfriend about the abortion, its your body but ???
Since you did it already just tell them the true don't keep lieing and makeing harder on your self ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and are you just wanting to get pregnant just to please him this isn' a game and I fthink you know that ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I believe it is sad because like myself tthey're so many women wanting to concieve and your just like abortion and now I want to get pregnant again because he is happy ?????????? think about ,,,,,,its not just I want a baby now !! AND BECAUSE you are a young and confused YOU SHOULD REALLY THNIK ABOUT IT,,,, IS THIS WANT YOU REALLY WANT,, YOU GOT A FUTURE AHEAD OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! have a baby because you really want it not for any other reason!!! SORRY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THAT?!
2006-08-12 15:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel cause I have lied to my boyfriend numerous times to get him to stay w/ me but I'm young and confused to...but if I were you I would talk to him about what's going on and what happened and have him explain it to his mother if you feel to guilty or pressured...I know it's hard but you gotta do it before you keep lieing and get yourself caught up to deep! I hope my advice helps...if u need more advice u can contact me @ prettypisces223@aol.com ~thanx
2006-08-10 17:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and upfront. That is playing with people's emotions and not right at all.
Since you are young then apparently you are not ready to have a child. Especially since you just killed one.
2006-08-10 17:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them the truth. it is better than them still thinking they are going to be a grandmother or father. wouldn't you like to know the truth? show the same respect that you would like to receive from others and just be truthful !!
2006-08-10 17:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from reading your other questions, this is probably made up and it's an AWFUL thing to make up. Grow up!
2006-08-10 17:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by It's a secret! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋