I have a bully that wants to fight me after school tomorrow, what should I do?

Question

He is a new kid in school and really tough. My school newspaper wanted me to write a stupid little peice on him. When I went to the bathroom, I told him about it. I made the mistake of touching his jacket and he threw me against the mirrors. He told me tomorrow at 3 O'Clock we are going to fight and there is nothing I can do about it.

I paid a school football player to beat him up but the bully busted this guy's nose in the library.

I thought I might had caught a break when the bully sat next to me in math and wanted to cheat off my answers. I let him and we both got caught. I was scared and told the principal that I was cheating off of the bully. The principal wrote a math question from the test on the board and asked the bully to complete it. Surprisingly he answered it correctly. He set me up now I am trouble with the school now.

What should I do?

Answer 1

Ok........so forget your issues. I have bigger ones. Am I going to jail? Who knew you were a minor!!!

Answer 2

Sounds like there is no reasoning with this guy. So unfortunately heres how it goes at 3 oclock before he can get a single word or letter in dont say a word just kick him right in the family jewels first, then when he bows down grab his head and knee him right in the face, now he may get up and beat the crap out of you but it wont be as bad and he might have some respect for you and others wont see you as an easy target in the future. If you tell an adult you'll be a punk to everyone and it will be along school year. If your too scared theres always homeschooling...

Answer 3

Well honestly I has the same problem since a kid picked me up over his head and threw me on the concrete asphalt of the playground my first day of kindergarten.

This depends on what you are willing to do honestly, the worst thing to do would be to do nothing at all, and let it continue and continue and continue, because it usually does, and it doesn't stop. So here are some options...

0) Before you go any further, try reasoning with him, it probably wont work but if it does you may have just saved yourself a LOAD of trouble and time.
1) Have someone give you a crash course on how to fight, and try and hold your own, if you get the crap beat out of you, tell a teacher, and you'll both be suspended or expelled.
2)Just don't show up at all, most likely what will happen is the same thing that happened to me, he will start stalking you, and make your life worse
3)Take the beating, and prepare for many more
I'm going to start giving you some helpful ones now
4)There are strength in numbers, if you want to face him, bring other people hes pissed off, if he asks you to fight alone, ask why doesn’t want an equal fight.
5)If your going to fight, have SOMEONE either video tape it, or record it, and turn it in the police and get the kid arrested under an assault charge, you need to make sure that he swings at you first!
6)Tell the principle about it, say if nothing is done, because this has become physical harassment, you will file a lawsuit against the district, and demand to speak to the super intentent if he does nothing.
7)Brains over brawn, think of something, think real hard...I once had a jacket with a pocket that went over my chest, I put a brick in it, and the dude almost broke his hand...don’t try this but think of something (it hurt me as well)
8)Might be something you want to look into, typically the people on the football team are friends, try convincing the other players on the team (espically the bigger guys) that the guy is one who busted up their friends nose...strength in numbers...

Now here is what not to do,

I almost tried this, don't bring weapons, its going to come back on you, trust me it will (You can, and since this kid obviously doesn’t like you, can get stuck with an assault with a deadly weapons charge). If you manage to beat him up, don’t beat him once he’s down. Whatever happens kid, good luck, I hope you do something about it so you don’t end up going though 11 grades of ****, like I did. I didn’t even finish high school because I let it get so bad.

And remember kid, a bunch of us are going to be there for you no matter one, maybe not physically but a lot of people will be there in sprit, I know I will, I really needed that diploma, and I let them win.

Answer 4

Math bullies are the worst. Although something just doesn't add up. Fortunately, they make up only a fraction of the population. Turn a negative into a positive. Don't let your troubles multiply. Figure out all the angles. Don't be obtuse. Have an acute awareness of what is going on. Be blunt in your language, but not graphic. Calculate how you can get even. Allow for the unknowns or your troubles will increase exponentially. Factor in all the variables. To sum it all up, when your number is up, it's up.

Answer 5

Well both use logic and wit to trick him, which is a whole separate topic, so I say the lesson of the day will be "the element of surprise". It's my guess that this guy (bully) has never had his *** handed to him, that's where you come in. A lot of the answers on here about kicking him in the nuts, while crude, are on the right track. Problem with that is that you have to be facing him to pull that one off, unless you come from behind, which brings us to the plan of action.

I would suggest if it is your intention to whoop this guy into tomorrow, while keeping the odds on your side, too attack while his back is turned. By doing this you gain a distinct edge over the bully. The first benefit being the obvious, since he does not expect it, he cannot defend against it. Second, if you succeed in doing this he will most likely be so embarrassed, and ashamed that he will leave you alone for a long time to come. Finally, you will gain the respect of your peers and possibly even a little fear of you now that they see you have completely lost your mind.

Now let’s go over a few scenarios....

I’m going to assume that you guys have lockers at your school for this one, and that the bully has hair. This is quick and very effective you just have to look at it logically and see it through to the end, meaning once you start delivering this guy the ghetto stomping of a life time...DON'T STOP!

So here we go, short and sweet. Walk up from behind him while he's messing around in his locker. Move slow if you can do so without being detected, or if you're in a compromising situation then move hard, and fast. The fast approach would be my personal choice for what it's worth. If moving fast you will have forward momentum on your side which makes the delivery of the attack so much more effective. Simply grab the hair on the back of his head, preferably as you're still moving forward and slam his face into the wall/locker. Repeat this process a few times. After his face hits the locker the first time it should completely disorient him or daze him, which ever you prefer. By slamming his face into the locker a few more times this would have the desired effect of making him suffer excruciating pain, humiliation and not to forget, a bloody nose times 10. Short and sweet…

I can guarantee you that he will have no means of fighting back, as he will most likely be knocked out. If you want to add in a little dramatic effect then add a few "how do you like that sh*t, b*tch", and "what now mother f*cker, who's the b*tch now"? This lets everyone else in hearing range know that you are crazy, and for future reference, not to be messed with.

By all means you can adjust this plan to fit the situation, just keep the basic elements intact. Speed, Surprise, and Force, that's it. Just make sure to see it through to the end, because if you stop half way through you may end up with your butt in a sling.

Also here’s another freebie. If he ever talks to you again there’s a way to make a punch that would usually not hurt someone bigger then you, fall to their knees. Simple stuff, quick jabs to the wind pipe. Once someone has this done to them just one time, they tend not to run their mouth anymore. A child could get the desired effect as the windpipe is weak, and not used to attack.

Feel free to message me if you need to find alternate means of getting out of this situation. By all means I don't ever suggest fighting if there is a better way out of a situation. Problem is this day and age this guy will just terrorize you until you grow up, frightened, and afraid to defend yourself. So let's teach the bully a little lesson, aye?

That was rather entertaining to type actually. In the small chance that you are not joking then please let me know how it goes...

Good luck buddy.
~Anathema

Answer 6

What the frick kind of school do you go to?
"My school newspaper wanted me to write a stupid little peice on him." That is a good way to alienate someone who probably doesn't already have many friends.

"I paid a school football player to beat him up but the bully busted this guy's nose in the library." That seems kinda lame, no offense.

What to do:
Bring a roll of pennies and clench it in your fist.. that's the key right there!

Answer 7

You MUST go to school. That's Number ONE. You've got to get your education. Unfortunately, part of your education is "Callum." Sorry, but it's part of the education of life. Instead of a teacher, maybe you go to a different teacher, a counselor, or the principal. Or, avoid Callum and/or travel with a group around school - your Mom is right, in some ways he IS a coward, and he picks on the weak. The others are probably "toadies" of Callum ... just followers, imitating him. Have you got any BIG friends? If not, get some. In the old gangster movies, it's called "protection." :) Remember, GO TO SCHOOL!!!!

Answer 8

Don't show and when anyone asks just say you have better things to do than mess with this idiot. Word of mouth is a powerful thing. Question them....Like "what's up with this guy, he's new here and all of a sudden he wants to start fighting people. Sounds insecure and pretty sad to me." Stuff like that gets around and pretty soon the ones who think he's cool will turn against him. If you play him off like he's no big deal others will too.

Answer 9

Do what we always used to do when the bullies came around when I was a kid....burn the school to the ground. If you're lucky, you'll catch Mr Maths Genius while he's working on his transposed equations. No more trouble with bullies for you, I reckon!

Answer 10

I would say, don't show up. Tell a parent or an adult you trust to come with you to the principles office and let them know what is happening and that you are truly scared. You shouldn't live you life in school scared....please, tell an adult....bullies these days are more violent and scary then ever....don't put yourself in that position.

Answer 11

If he is going to make you fight, whether you put up your fists or not, pack somthin. Take a bat, and walk right up to him and before he even wonders, beat him in the side with it. Not the head NEVER THE HEAD, don't do that, just the side, and the leg, really hard, I did one time when I was in 7th grade to some guy. I knew I was in for a world of pain so I beat him in the side with a bat, he crumpled over in pain and I just got suspended from school for 2 weeks, IT WAS AWESOME!!!!!!!