My boyfriend is really crazy and we are having a great time ... the only problem is that whenever he thinks he just goes for it ... and i also like it ... but i am worried about it now ... caz i dont know if its gonna be any problem for me ... and i dont want to ask him to stop or anything ... caz i like it too ...i am so confused ...
2006-08-10 10:29:10 · 15 answers · asked by JessLickMe 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It is totally ok as long as you are being able to enjoy it. Basically its totally ok for the guy, but not for the girl. A guy can have sex as many times as he pleases but if a girl tries that too many times against her will then it might cause her serious injuries. So make sure you are turned on properly before doing it. And make sure he cares for you truly, and probably you won't get hurt physically.
2006-08-10 10:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you are very young because of your writing style so I will answer with that in mind.
If you are having intercourse with a young male, he is likely to want sex as many times a day as you are willing to allow. His hormones are raging and he is having sexual thoughts almost all the time. That is perfectly natural.
What troubles me about your question is that you do not seem to understand that whether or not you want sex is up to you! You do not have to have sex with him every time he wants to and you really do need to be able to say "no" to a man.
If you do not begin speaking honestly and openly about your wants and needs, you might end up married to a bully or even worse, an abusive man. You are the "owner" of your body and you should cherish it, nourish it and protect it at all times.
Do not be afraid that he won't love you or think you're "hot" if you don't feel like having sex as often as he does. If he says anything to indicate that he won't love you or think you are sexy, send him away immediately! You do not have to do anything you do not want to do and if he does love you, he will respect that.
By the way, men are at their sexual peak at about 19 years old and woman peak in their thirties! Doesn't that just bite?
Hope this helps. Respect yourself!
2006-08-10 10:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is pretty bad. Since you claim u do it 12 times a day u don't do anything else in the whole day. SO its cool to do it, but doing it 24x7 (unless its ur job), is not very productive. Or maybe u guys r just way 2 fast (do u last more than 40 min each, i doubt it.
2006-08-10 10:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Muss knows best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I think that is too much!
I hope you are using protection. I hope that you know this person very, very well.
It seems to me that soreness is going to be, if not already, an issue. You may get more yeast infections. I would cut back. Make it special!
2006-08-10 10:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by I like pizza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...He'll get bored of sex (not necessarily you) and then you'll be asking why you guys don't have it as much anymore. Do you guys have time to talk or is it all just time to fu*k? How's the relationship?
2006-08-12 07:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tabulah Erassa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you do anything else in your life ? Twelve times a day - do you have time for anything else ? Like school, work, sleep, eating, drinking ?
2006-08-10 11:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mika M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-10 12:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how many times, provided you can live with it and enjoy every sexual intercourse you made. The only problem if you became pregnant later.
2006-08-10 10:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by FRANCIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are enjoying it, continue to do so. I don't think there is any such thing as too much sex.
2006-08-10 13:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by prmb1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having sex with only "your boyfriend" then its OK,until
it doesn't hurt you.
2006-08-10 11:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rewolve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋